Is it normal that i let him

Well one day my friend and me where watching this cartoon he was in my room then he turned over and said "Want to go some where? I said no i was very sleepy then blah blah blah we just talked and then he put his hand in my pants I thought is was a joke and then he started pulling my you no what I was trying to push him away but at the same time I was letting him do it but it hurt and i mean he was really pulling it then after that he stopped doing it he got on his laptop and listened to songs and i was just like 0-0 wtf......After that i asked him why did he do that and he just said"It was just a joke" AND I FEEL SO BAD for letting him to that i almost cry every night because i let him do that AHH! Its horrible.........What should I do. :(

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  • BeFree&True

    I'm pretty sure that was sexual assault. I get the impression that you are fairly young. You really need to find an adult to talk to about this, and you need to avoid this friend at all costs. Abusers will repeat their behaviors if you let them. If anyone ever tries to force themselves on you like that again, you FIGHT. No one has the right to your body and peace of mind. What he did was wrong, and it is absolutely not your fault that it happened.

    Talk to someone.

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  • Fidgety

    That's one sick friend you have. You should avoid him at all costs.

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  • pufferton

    Clearly yanking on your you-know-what is not "just a joke". Tell someone, and avoid him. That is not an okay thing for a friend to just do against your will.

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  • Avant-Garde

    I agree with the Other users. He Sexually assaulted you. You should tell someone.

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  • Anime7

    Well it sounds like rape. Although, minus the actual physical abuse. If anything I suggest avoiding him.

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