Ask Your Question today
im pretty sure im straight but im rarely turned on by the thought of guys. when i think about girls, however, i can get really turned on. is this normal?
I know what you mean, i am only romantically attracted to guys. As in, i've never had a crush on a girl and i can't imagine being "in love" with a girl. But girls have always turned me on more than guys?
I have the same issue! I did think a girl was cute, but I have never had any interactions with females. I love men (one man lol), but the thought of touching or sucking huge breasts or the thought of watching my husband ejaculate onto huge breasts is extremely arousing to me...Well I think it's probably moreso the "unattainable", newness of it.
I am so beyond relieved.
I've always had crushes on boys, I've always had the butterfly feeling in my stomach when I really like a guy and I've always gotten turned on by boys. I was never interested in girls or being sexual with them or anything like that.
I've only ever had sex with boys, 6 to be exact and I've never had a crush on a girl or even the desire to get with another girl. However my best friend when I was 6 and 7 years old used to guilt me into taking my clothes off and kissing her and touching her breasts. I didn't enjoy it, she manipulated me and tortured me into thinking if I didn't do what she wanted me to do she would tell my family that I had done all of these terrible things she was doing to me- to her. I grew up with some intimacy issues because of her, but have since moved on.
But a few months ago I was going through a bit of a drought and bought a vibrator. I had never had an orgasm before, even from having sex with men, which by the way was just as good as having an orgasm, i just didnt have that inner clench which is apparently common for a lot of women. Anyways when I tried out my vibrator I found that my mind wandered from men to a man and woman having sex and then a womans breasts. I could orgasm from thinking about strictly men or strictly women or both.
Then I had sex with a man and had my first orgasm from sex, which was great :)
But when I masturbate I think about womens breasts because for some reason it gives me an intenser orgasm. It's not like I think about two women together, or even of stuff being done to or doing things to women, just the image of their breasts.
I recently have been having a lot of anxiety issues and some severe signs of depression because the thought of being with another woman makes me feel physically ill, I was so afraid that because I could orgasm from looking at a womans breasts that it meant I was a lesbian but I dont want to be with a woman. I love everything about men, I love their strong hands, their arms and elbows, their abs and the v that leads your eyes to their... ;) not to mention their manhood is fun to play with, i especially love giving head :) haha. I love the feeling i get when i look at a man and he smiles back at me or the feeling of sleeping with a man. I love men, but I was afraid that I was a lesbian because I could get off on breasts.
This has laid all of my insecurities and doubts to rest.
I believe that society puts too much emphasis on womens bodies as a symbol for sexuality. When you grow up with women being glorified as the root of sex it implants the idea of the image being sexually satisfying.
It may sound confusing, but Doctor Kinsey's theory is the best example for what I believe to be right.
You dont have to define yourself to anyone, you arent alone, normal doesnt exist. we all have likes and dislikes, some vary from others, but were all human.
:)
i'm actually the opposite, im a straight girl who's in love with a girl. i love sex with guys, but i think girls make the best significant others. :]
hmm.. that's interesting. i think it's normal, though. girls, by nature, are more attractive. we have nicer curves and more aesthetic bodies.
Totaly normal! Im the same! Roam your imagination, no one can see it but you!
If you can - try for a moment to lift your perspective to a new level. People are sexual. Women are designed to be appealing to the eye in order to attract a mate and reproduce. On a spiritual level, love and attraction have nothing to do with gender. When we fall in love with a person it is not their genitals that we fall in love with it is the person inside that captivates us.
I'm tired of being classified, labeled, and put in a box regarding sexuality. To me there is no such thing as gay, straight, or bi - there are only people capable of love.
So, enjoy what turns you on. Stay open to love regardless of what package it comes in and enjoy being a sexual human being. Just be sure to protect yourself and plan ahead.
yup i think it is normal. i have always lived with women no father around in my life my mom was always telling me stories about how my dad hurt her and abused her then i seen it happen to my sister then my friends and i started to get this hatred for men for being so mean and making everythign about sex using women. thats how sex feels to me like a man is using a women. though i am not a lesbian as i would never want a relationship with another women not even a sexual one not even to experament i feel more comfortable watching all female porn or thinking about 2 women having sex with no men involved becuase otherwise straight porn makes me very angry and feel bitter. if that makes sense. so seeing a women getting pleasure is much more of a turn on then thinking "look at that guy using her shes just faking thats disgusting!"
I think this is normal. I get turned on by women with big natural breasts. Love looking at pics of women, but don't wanna be touched or have a woman touch me. Enjoy the fantasy... you're not gay and probably not bi.
I know there have been a bunch of comments already, but I definitely feel the same way...the female body is a beautiful thing! I've been with girls before and I'm definitely more turned on physically by being with men, but I DO let my mind wander often!
@nerdyeagle....i couldn't have said it better myself. I am a girl and I am straight but for w/e reason some girls turn me on....nothing wrong with it a lot of girls feel the same they are curious to explore something new and different AND BLACK OR WHITE, GAY OR STRAIGHT MARRIAGE IS A LEGAL RIGHT!!!!!!
Humans are multisexual beings, for one, but yes, you can prefer a relationship with men and still be attracted to women.
Biologically you probably tend towards men because of the physical need to reproduce, be protected, etc. There would be no benefit in a relationship with a female (for you personally, this isn't an anti-lesbian rant) but women's bodies are naturally designed to evoke strong sexual reaction.
I've felt the same way since I was young. I have read that almost everyone has those kind of thoughts from time to time (hard to believe, but how many would tell ya if they did) so you may be bi but you're probably not.
Women s bodies are amazing. I m incredibly turned on by women and im a extreamly happily married to a man. Its normal i think and if its not 'who cares". It certainly spices up our sex life. I have been with a women, we both put on a bit show for our husbands one night, and it was amazing. We both licked each other out for hours.Nothing beats having a girl licking your pussy , she knows exactly what you want, then rubbing each others dripping wet pussys, OMG im wet just thinking about it ;-)
I'm the same. Like i'm probably bi curious or something but i do get turned on by girls yet wouldnt want a full blown romantic relationship with them. I think its the thrill of something new, different, rebelious and sheer curiosity. Its normal. I know tons of girls the same :)
no trouble... im straight bt smetimes i check out gay sites... its no trouble u get turnd on by gals... u cn b a lesbian instead.. its nt a sin... best.. part of being a bi... is u dnt hve 2 tke da trouble of takin contraceptives... njoy....
Totally normal. The female body is a lot more elegant than the male one! Most women I know that aren't turned on by girls agree that they'd rather see a woman stripping than a man.
You could either be bisexual, or bicurious . If you would want to hold a romantic relationship with women then your bisexual. But if you just have he desire to get sexually active then your are bicurious.
I'm more turned on by girls, but I'd get too nervous and wouldn't know what to do with a girl, even though I've watched lots of f-f porn (though that shit isn't realistic anyway). I really enjoy sex with my fiancé, and he likes the fact that I'm turned on by girls. But yeah, you're normal, however I think you're bi, not straight.
It's because your hormones are going rage.
It's normal, you will soon lose that feeling about getting turned on by girls.
Girls are normally attracted to boys.
You should just give in to your primal lust and go eat out the next hot girl that is willing to pread her legs for you!
Read some yuri manga. It will answer the question of whether you are or are not what YOU THINK! DAMN IT JUST READ SOME YURI MANGA!!! and if you are, try yaoi too.
I'm so glad I'm not the only one! I've never had the desire to be with one, I can't imagine being in love with one either, but I'm much more turned on by women's bodies than men's. They're a lot more interesting to me. I always look for porn with hot women, not hot men. I know I'm 100% straight and am not even curious to be with a woman so what the heck? Women's bodies are just more aesthetic I guess. Hard to resist.
I have always thought about this, I have always had guy lovers and I am attracted to men but on the other hand I am so attracted to a female body. Everything about a women I love, breasts turn me on a hell of a lot. When I watch porn I always find my attention Is on the women.
Honestly, i think it's kind of normal. It takes a lot more than wet dreams to be a bisexual person. In my opinion bisexuals are people that really could get involved in any relationship with the same behavior and importance, whether it is with men or with women.
i think there's a huge difference to make here: we're talking about having dreams involving women. It's just a pure fantasy. As you may know, you don't have to achieve all the fantasies that you're having!! I have this fantasy of being fucked by a policeman on the side of the road, yet you're not gonna see me pulling over tomorrow and ask a policeman to fuck me!! Same goes with the dreams you're having, just because you dream of a girl or having sex with her, doesn't mean you'll behave the same way in real life. You don't have to materialize your own fantasies. That would be pretty awkward, right?!
On a side note, I read a comment from someone who mentioned hormones, that's actually a very relevant argument since junk food and a lot of stuff contain endocrine disruptors and these types of things, so your hormones could also be misleading you.
A gay person or a bisexual person are people who have FEELINGS for a same sex person. Sex itself or sex reaction cannot alone determine your sexual orientation. Sexual reactions cannot be reasonably explained.
I have always had crushes on boys, fantasized my life with men and enjoy having sex. My sexuality has never been an issue before but I am a pretty conservative person. I am overly in love with my boyfriend but sometimes large breasts make my vagina twitch! I had a dream where I kissed a girl and ever since have had awful anxiety about my sexuality. I couldn't imagine living a life with another woman. I want my anxiety to go away! Am I normal?
I know I'm straight I think but I could be bi. I only am turned on by the thought of a woman's wet pussy, and her throbbing and moaning in pleasure. I am also incredibly turned on by f-f porn and pictures online like tumblr and stuff. However, I think i'm straight because, even though i'd eat pussy in second, I want a nice long cock to bounce on,and guys have sexy personalities and are easier to have relationships with. So take my lead I'll probably eat a girl out and then fuck with a guy a few times to see which one I like best and if I love them both I'll just be that way, but I still couldn't imagine having a relationship with a woman beyond sex.
I have a problem to! i have major OCD and i am nervous that i might be bi! i not turned on by girls and i have only had crushes on boys, though i think its easier to say girls are pretty than to say boys are hot. Why is this? i need answers.
I am the same. I am straight but i only get turned on when thinking about women. I think about women when having sex with my man. Anything goes when it comes to lusts and desires i think. It's a strange thing, but a good thing!
i think about me pleasing a girl while im having sex with my boyfriend and i cum in 2 seconds i am super sexually active its just gotten to the point where i really want to try it out but im just scared to actually do it with my bf and her at the same time i just couldnt be with one girl i would have to be with a guy and a girl is this odd
im have been married for 25 yrs. i am 47 . i recently had a ver hot encounter with a 26 year old co worker at a bar. she is married as well .. it was so hot .. we kissed and we played .. made me extremely wet .. left me feeling so strange though .. we can seperate it at work . cant stop thinking about it!
i've always liked the thought of kissing a girl and have done it in the past but i don't think i'd be able to be in a serious relationship with one.
I got to say, I find it a sad commentary on the state of our society that looking through IIN, there's a high normal rate for topics relating to girls attracted to girls, while a low normal rate for topics relating to guys attracted to guys. Why the disparity? Patriarchy and homophobia, imo.
Also, I don't think the female body is inherently more attractive than the male body. That's just another excuse for men to sexually objectify women. Men *and* women evolved to be sexually attractive to each other. One thing that might be true is that it's more socially acceptable for women to acknowledge the beauty of the female body than it is for men to acknowledge the beauty of their own bodies.
But, to get back to the OP, what exactly do you mean by turned on? If you mean sexually attracted, I'd say you're actually bisexual, even if you never act on the urges.