Is it normal that i'm afraid of men who are blood related to me?

Ever since I can remember I have been afraid of men that are blood related to me. Not in a way that I would run away if I saw my dad but I'm scared that my father, uncle or any other men from our family might think of me sexually. There have never been any kind of solid proof of anything like it but I'm just really afraid that it might happen. It includes my big brother too. Sometimes I think about what would happen if he had a crush on me and it eats me inside. And just so you don't get the wrong idea; I would never ever want it to happen. It's just that every time they would say something even mildly sexual (for example when my brother and I are talking about celebrities that are good looking) I have this fear that he would say something inappropriate or behave the wrong way... I don't know what to do anymore for this really affects my life and relationship with my family.

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  • GoraIntoDesiGals

    Most men are turned off by incest. I know I am.

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  • inst

    I would say that your fears are not unjustified as the majority of sexual abuse does happen from a family member. As for advice I think a counsellor or something would be best, but if you don't want to do that I suppose I would then just limit my exposure with any of these male family members where practical until such time that you feel more confident about it.

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  • green_boogers

    Sounds like the start of paranoid schizophrenia. If the fear gets unbearable, check yourself into the looney bin. The nice people there will give you happy medicine.

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  • suckonthis9

    Men are not 'blood related'.

    A spermatozoon cell is neither a erythrocyte (red blood cell) nor a leukocyte (white blood cell). A spermatozoon cell contains genetic information, not blood.

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    • Ah..except the HVAC-9er12obiwan are directly related to the ol' VHATC-L2..and that, my friend...says it all!

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      • Asstastics

        Don't forget the VQCTHX-21b. It's electrically biological.

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