Is it normal that i'm feeling pressured about this?
This year I'm a Senior and I'm really excited, and so is my family. So excited in fact that they're practically running my entire year! I know they love me and they just want to help, but its really pressuring me. I want to move on campus and go to the University I got accepted into next year, but they keep on bitching at me about moving out. The guy next door is going to a nearby community college and now all of a sudden they're bugging me about doing it too. On top of that, my best friend is perpetually avoiding me because they think I'm ditching them (I suppose) and my family thinks that we're in love. Seriously ; I get this non-stop. They're always ragging on me about how we should get married and all that, and sometimes its cute, but others it really grates on my nerves. Everytime they come around or their name is mentioned, they always talk about how we should get together or how they like me. Bottom line, I'm sick of feeling so pressured and I need some advice. I know where I want to go and what I want to do, but I feel like they're trying to clip my wings instead of setting me free. So, whats your advice? Is this normal? Please, no rude or creepy comments about your balls or whatever. Be serious or don't say anything. Thanks.