Is it normal that i'm only gay when i'm high?

Being under the influence of drugs and/or alcohol releases inhibitions. Subconsciously you are attracted to your homosexual friend. Sober, you are in denial. You may not want to be "Gay", but you are definitely Bi-Sexual.

Bill Clinton said he smoked but didn't inhale.

So I guess you're saying you sucked but didn't swallow?

Its pretty normal. Im a straight girl with a boyfriend and when sober completely turned off by other girls. But when i'm high its like i want to do things with girls just for the experience. Not because it turns me on..its the rush as a whole.

it's not surprising.

I've known people who will hit anything - any age, any gender - when they are in an altered state of mind.

it's because some drugs lower your inhibitions, which means you may act out in ways you never would while sober. For some it's sex, for others it's biting off more than they can chew in a fight.

in many cases it leads to a lot of regrets

I think this is normal. Whenever I get high with this one friend, he always gets horny. He starts trying to pull his pants down, and he does weird stuff. I always have to calm him down. Not cool. Ruins my high. -_-

When My friend Jenny gets drunk she starts kissing other girls. As far as I know she's straight.
Then again for some reason it is more socially acceptable for a girl to do that than a guy. So I duno probably normal.

you are gay . your just normally too uptight to admit it. relax its Ok to be gay.

If you keep going back for more it's got to mean there is more than a little experimenting going on

maybe you should try doing more with him when your not high and see if you do like it , and if you do you could be possibly gay or bisexual .

Most people do things they wouldn't normally under the influence, you probably are gay or bi but you only get horny for this certain guy when high.

I get bisexual when I smoke weed. I don't like girls. I don't even like feminine guys. So I think it's just a part of your party self. You are not gay.

Sorry high or drunk it doesn't matter. If you do gay things at all it's still gay.

I get when I am horny I like watching gay porn but afterwards I feel ashamed cause I don't actually like guys- so I can kinda see where ur coming from

how about you dont smoke? why would you want to in the first place?

It's not very normal to get high, so if you often smoke weed, almost everything is normal for you.

Just go get high and then bend over and enjoy it, you already know that you will. Intoxication just erases anything holding you back

Yes, yes, yes... I'm a straight man, and I have enjoyed the occasional thought of sucking a dick. I sucked one when I was a teenager, but since then haven't acted out the fantasy and I have not been able to even masturbate to the idea... ...unless I smoke weed! I get so fucking horny when I'm high and I watch gay porn. It's the most awesome feeling too. My orgasms when watching gay porn and smoking weed are way stronger than with straight porn or having actual sex with a woman... even if I'm high.

Hi I'm newbie but saw ur post and the comments and wanted to add mine. I can't tell u wether ur gay bi or just horny wen high for the dirtiest sex u can imagine? But I can say that I hav had the same feelings myself wen high struggled with and hated myself wen sober but always wen high I'm only turned on by gay porn and only want gay sex, I finally admitted this to my gf during sex & whilst sober and cos she accepted it as fantasy it slowly crept into our sexlife, but now I only like gay porn she is turned on by it as well but I only play with her now and don't want to do more, I always want to be the btm with a guy, I hav experimented wen high and enjoyed but felt bad wen sober but I never attracted to guys high or sober and now accept I just am a dirt bag who wants what always told was bad and wrong and am bi tending towards gay lol but this comes out now as I'm 40+ libido has dropped and only get turned on by sight of guys cxxk love my gf but know now I'm GAY but can't bring myself to admit wen sober lol but I am and should as I won't get any happiness or satisfaction till I do but that's me this post too long I know but ur u and you r only one who can work this out for you just wanted to get this out and let u know ur not only one don't feel guilty as kinky sex wen high is normal and do Wat makes u feel good you'll work out the rest later lol enjoy life enjoy sex enjoy ur high the guilts just comedown blues

Some guys turn from Dr Jekyll into Mr Hyde when they've been drinking and do some crazy things. Hookers/strippers can't do their work unless they're high. It means people aren't dealing with their issues, chronically. Those issues might be childhood abuse or neglect, etc but they require long-term mental strength to overcome. High is weak, therefore, you'll relapse into your natural deviance.

I'm a 100% straight guy but I love it when my boyfriend bends me over and rams me from behind.

Same thing with me. Shit turns me on while normally it doesn't.

I've read a lot of comments on this story wich I found very intesting. I think there are probably cases when the drug turns down a denial-rational thing in your brain and you could be gay. Still, that doesn't mean that it can't be just a curiosity you have becouse you're high, or a conection you make between this guy and something else. None of us can give you a real answer to your question, 'couse the answer is hidden somewhere deep in your own self, and it has nothing to do with anything else than you.

I had the same thing happen to me

Its not common but its not all that odd. I don't think you're gay but when you get high, it open up your sub con. mind. I personally think you think trying new things. Most women experiment with same sex even if they don't admit it. Some find out they're gay and the rest remains straight. So men aren't all that different. So if you're only gay when your high, you're probably not gay, just more open to experimentation.

I used to do a lot of speed and would only get horney for men when high on that stuff. Now I don't do that stuff anymore and I am always into men. Was it the dope that turned me bi? I don't think so as I have always had a bi curiosity.

I Joined specificly to write this comment and i did this because some guy did the exact same thing to me and it is extremly annoying!! please tell him what you just wrote on here because hes proberbly very confussed also , like i was! but dont worry im sure your not as bad as he was.

You're bi dude and it's kewl. Talk to your friend when your sober adn see what happens.

Are you sexually frustrated? If so, you might just be attracted to him because he's willing, and the drugs have already broken the ice.

That's the ONLY heterosexual explanation I could think of.

Most of you guys are really ignorant, by the way. I hope this guy isn't depending on this site to straighten him out.

It's normal, don't worry about it. Just enjoy yourself. On a similar note, I've thought my girlfriend swung both ways the entire time I've known her. The other day we were out, drinking, when one of my female friends started hitting on her. She got really excited and would stop talking about her later. When she sobered up... she still had a crush on her. I feel that I may have been right. :D

You're probably a str8 acting gay or bi guy or just really horny. I've known 'so called' str8 guys who love male/male sex on some drugs. Just relax.

People say being high/drunk makes you a different person but I think they just revealsthe inner you therefor you're probably bi.

Why labels? You are who you are, even the high version.. people have dimensions. don't worry about it. (;

This reminds me of an episode of the Sarah Silverman Program....

Anyways, no it doesn't mean you're gay. It means you're high. Or slutty. Or you can't accept your sexuality unless your mind is put at ease.

your probaly bi u noe

you are not gay. it just an accident. under the smoke control. relax :))

Once a gay always a gay.

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