Is it normal that i'm paranoid about my sister's safety?

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Ever since my parents were killed in accidents, I've been worried for my sister's well-being every time she does anything. I try to get her to take me with her to errands whenever I can, because I'm worried that as soon as I'm not looking something might happen to her. Every time she leaves without me I sort of panic, worry that she might not come back, and can't really feel comfortable until she's back home. When I leave without her, I try to make everything as quick as possible so I can get back to her. If anything does happen to her, it will be my fault for not being there and I don't what I'll do because right now she's pretty much all I've got. She knows I'm concerned about her but I don't think she knows how much it really affects me. I have to keep myself distracted while she's busy because if I don't I'll start worrying so much I can't think until she comes back. Is it normal for me to be like this?

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  • Tehboss
    12 years ago

    yes and no
    Yes you are clearly traumatized and react in the way you can
    No it is not normal and you should get some help in overcoming it

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  • Angel_in_a_Glass_Dress
    12 years ago

    I would suggest talking to a counselor.

    This may make you feel like you're protecting her but eventually she may end up more smothered than protected.

    Plus, even if you do have your eye on her 247 it doesn't mean nothing can happen to her. That's something you'll have to come to grips with... sometimes there's nothing you can do to stop something from happening.

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  • niles402
    12 years ago

    It's normal and i am in he same situation as you,exactly the same except my sis is older but don't force yourself on her too much becouse,although she loves you a lot,too mcuh presence is disturbing.It's difficult for you but just try loosening a bit dude

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  • ygrowup
    12 years ago

    Yes, very normal, but you have to be careful that it does not take over your life!

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  • [Old Memory]
    12 years ago

    that sounds a natural thing for you do to do i hope you get to a state of relaxation

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  • iiznotnormal
    12 years ago

    That depends how old you and your sister is.

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  • Tisgranum
    12 years ago

    You also have to think of the negative effect that suffocating her might have; both to your relationship with her and her as a person.

    It is something you should try to overcome for yourself as well of course.

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  • MrsBailey9
    12 years ago

    Sounds like you have some pretty severe anxiety issues, and there are good medications available that would most likely benefit you. I also feel that talking to someone, maybe a professional, could also be beneficial. Your worries and fears are just a bit extreme, lol, and with time, counseling and a "happy pill", you'll be ok.

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