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I'm kind of scared of guys. I don't know why, because I have always had a good relationship with all of my male relatives and so far I haven't had a boyfriend (not because of this). Ever since I was little, 8 or so, I've feared marrying/dating a guy who would kill me and have just been wary of them.
I can relate to that - I'm scared of guys too, sometimes. And here's the kicker - I'M a guy! It's a only certain type of guy, though - some have a kind of animalistic quality, a latent potential for violence. It turns a lot of women on, but turns a lot to celibacy, or unnatural lesbianism. Please don't write-off our whole gender, or else think that only gay men or relatives are "safe".
I understand why you have the fear of us but you shouldnt think all men will cause you harm. last, if the guys right you'll slowly start to lose this fear when your with them. I promise
Hun you need to get this checked out. Are you sure that nothing has ever happened in your life to make you afraid of males. Ask your mother or father maybe something happened like you got in a major fight with a male relative or friend when you were little and the thought just stuck. You need to ask a counseler for help or even just your docter they can help you through this. Not all guys are bad if you find a man that you love then go for it it's ok. If it makes you feel any better go on a date and bring a small spray can of pepper spray with you that way on the extremely microscopic chance that he turns out as bad you can defend yourself but the chance is less than five percent. (Just don't tell your date it might ruin it)