Is it normal that i'm scared of my 1st kiss?

I'm really scared of my first kiss, and love in general. I have a major crush on one guy (everyone says I love him, but I don't want to call it love unless he loves me back) and a crush on my sort of guy friend (who may or may not like me). I'm so scared of my 1st kiss. When do we kiss? Which way do I turn my head? What if he doesn't like how I kiss? What if he uses tongue? What if I do something wrong? I don't think I'll be a good kisser (quizzes I've taken have said I'm going to be really shy at kissing). I've read some kiss stories & a lot of them turned out horrible! On the others, people probably lied. Honestly, is it normal to be scared? What was your first kiss like?

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  • mightymatt

    My first was almost a year ago. I still laugh when I think about it because we were listening to boombox by the lonely island.

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  • i was scared to but mine went like this
    we hugged and then he kept his arms around my waist then we leaned in kissed and thdn after we stood with our arms around each other
    after i was shaking

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    • gothrockangel

      That's a lot like my first kiss experience! :D

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  • notallthere

    Be the dominant one. Let the first kiss be a peck. If you're up for it, the second can be French.

    OK so embarrassing story... my first girlfriend in ninth grade started licking my mouth and... yeah... I told her to stop, because I really didn't see it coming. The ironic thing is, the opposite of you, I didn't think about it ENOUGH.

    Basically, give it a little thought, but don't be constantly freaking out about it. My first tongue kiss went like that, and I'm still okay! And now I get to tell that awesome story!

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    • gothrockangel

      That's a pretty awesome story! xD

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  • Orangepeelx

    My first kiss was with my best friend. We were hugging by a tree in the woods and we kissed. It's was really sweet but we didn't date afterwards. It was just a lip peck ;) don't worry too much about it! I used to be paranoid about it but when it actually happens it comes naturally :) trust me there is nothing to worry about :)

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  • Nokiot9

    Depends wholly on the situation really. If ur alone with him and he touches you before he kisses you (ie:takes your hand, pulls you close, or places his hand on your neck or waist) he is probably gonna use tongue. Just keep ur mouth and lips soft, don't throw your tongue down his throat, just take ur time and go with the flow. Do what comes natural. You will be surprised how little you actually think about it when it's actually happening. If he just leans in without touching u, he is probably just gonna give u a quick peck and it's gonna be over as soon as it began so u won't have to worry. Lol or you could take it into ur own hands, screw waiting for him to make a move, kiss him. Open his lips a bit with urs and give him some tongue and if he responds,ur all good.

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  • gothrockangel

    The first kiss can either be the most magical moment ever, or just one of those awkward moments. Mine was the most magical moment ever!
    it was before my first class of the day, about two or three years ago, this was someone I dated for a couple months, and right when the bell rang, he just held me in his arms for a second, and we both went in for the kiss. It was amazing!
    Hopefully yours will be just as amazing, if not better, love. :) Trust me, just relax and let it happen. It will be a beautiful moment for you. :)

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  • jc25

    Wait 4 some1. There will always be a Mr. Right.

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  • Galvani

    Humans are afraid of the unknown, once the first kiss has been made the fear goes away.

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  • DTS

    My first real kiss was last October when I went to the movies with my girlfriend. It started out as a normal kiss and moved into a French and it was perfect(:

    Go for the kiss(:

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  • nagasonavimana

    Dudes...the whole point is to explore the person. That means making mistakes, accidentally biting lips, coughing in someone's mouth, etc etc.

    The most important advice I can give you is DON'T RUSH YOUR TONGUE. When your partner wants to french-kiss, they'll open their mouths a little or lick your lip a little. French kisses are universally lauded because they're slow and sensual. Do not turn your tongue into a jackhammer. Don't let them do it either. If they do, hold their head, pull away, chuckle, then lead them into going slow.

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  • jesusj

    I also I have never kissed anyone (I'm a guy). As well, I'm also worried. But whats the worst that can happen?

    You'll be lucky if the guy also has not had his first kiss. So then you'll both be inexperienced. Just a thought.

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