Is it normal that i never want to date ever!

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When i was 14 my first girlfriend was everything to me. There was something in noticed though. She had attachtment issues. When ever i didn't talk to her for a day or so. She would freak and fight at me. I had to let her go. Then my next girlfriend at 15. Was very depressed. One day i went to see her before the 4th of july party. She had hung herself. Ever since i have felt nothing but pain and guilt. And in fear of hurting anyone else out there. I decided to keep to myself forever. Is that normal?

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  • faggotwithabawldcut
    7 years ago

    hire someone on craigslist

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  • RoseIsabella
    11 years ago

    I think you might have some kinda PTSD. You're smart to not wanna date for now. I think if you get some therapy to help you work through the traumas you've experienced in your love life and figure out why you keep dating these poor damaged girls you will feel better. You are still a very young man and there's really no harm in you're taking a break from dating if that's what you want to do. When you work on yourself and being the best you that you can be you'll find that you attract young women who are doing the same for themselves. You can still love the sad damaged ones but from afar. Love them in a Godly way through prayer but don't get romantically involved with them because they'll drag you down and hurt you again. Learn to love and care for yourself not in a selfish way but in a nurturing way. As you become stronger and healthier you will attract and be attracted to stronger and healthier young ladies. You need someone who can be an equal partner not a person who is needy and drains you. And always remember that you are in no way responsible for the suicide of your late girlfriend. You were powerless over her mental illness.

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  • y2b4u3d
    12 years ago

    I fell your pain the feeling of you hurting someone else but you need to move on this is the life you never get candy without fire!

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