Is it normal that i react to my mother like this?

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Whenever she approaches me I react angrily and sometimes I react very violently/hostile towards her ( it often gets to the point where I'm either pinned down by my brother or my cousin ). I really don't know what is causing me to do this but I feel like it is something.

Edit: I am going to go book a therapy session and get healthy feelings towards my mother, thank you all for commenting I appreciate that.

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Based on 25 votes (4 yes)
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  • CountessDouche
    3 years ago

    That's not a normal response to anything. It doesn't accomplish anything, and that's true for almost every situation.

    I think it might be beneficial for you to see a therapist.

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    • Somenormie
      3 years ago

      I will go and get therapy my reasoning of why I am asking this question is because I want to start having a healthy relationship with my mother.

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  • mathewdavis133
    3 years ago

    that is not normal.

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    • Somenormie
      3 years ago

      Yeah I know lots say it wasn't normal but so far I've built a good relationship with my mother, I hope for myself it'll be that way and not reverting back to the old situation. Professional help has helped me.

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  • mouldiwarp
    3 years ago

    Is she abusive towards you? I’m not violent towards my dad, but for the longest time I was scared of him and I felt distant from him. I still can’t feel fully comfortable around him.

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  • SwickDinging
    3 years ago

    Sounds like you are abusing her. That's not normal.

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    • Somenormie
      3 years ago

      Abusing her wasn't my intention, I went out of control and I blame myself for this if anything I am better off apologising to her and getting help like what CountessDouche said.

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      • SwickDinging
        3 years ago

        Yes, definitely get help. You don't want to end up isolated from y our family

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  • BlueAlice
    3 years ago

    Depends why you did that. Assuming she was never abusive or violet towards you: NO! Get yourself assessed for Pathological Demand Avoidance, schizophrenia and personality disorders stat!

    If she was, maybe it's valid. Why did you do that. How old were you then and what decade of age are you in now?

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    • Somenormie
      3 years ago

      I did it out of hatred and I purely want to punch myself out of regret.

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      • BlueAlice
        3 years ago

        If you say so. Please own up to having personality disorders. Please.

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  • my_life_my_way
    3 years ago

    Depends on your age, if you’re a 10-14 year old boy then it’s normal. If not then you need to control your emotions and behave like a human being.

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    • Somenormie
      3 years ago

      Actually I am no longer that age my_life_my_way but yeah I will do the best to control my emotions and behave like a human being its the least I can do.

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  • Chap
    3 years ago

    I voted normal because I went through a phase like this myself. It was when I was 10-11. It passed after that. I'd say, as bad as you feel when near her, be patient; as much as it hurts.

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