Is it normal that i reject many "friends"?
I tend to become very selective and I get very skeptical about people. I also don't enjoy socializing (I'm a strong introvert) and I have high standards and preferences. The kind of buddies I'd probably hang out with should be ambitious, not lazy, confident and we should have in common the following interests: sports, sex, history, politics. They should converse like real men (that means to be stable, not one bit offended) and to be reasonable and understanding when the others need that (which I believe is called non-toxic). Ideally, they should also enjoy fighting, war, blades, guns and stuff like this. If they're weak or "pussified", it's over. I have a lot of requirements and I end up alone. When I'm unhappy in a "friendship" (most of the time) with some things, I just reject guys who want to hang out with me. I feel kinda bad for this, but I can't enjoy the time with any of them. Loneliness is a much better option for me in this case. I must add that being lonely is not a problem for me, it's a benefit actually. I'd spend time with others only if they really fit my standards well. On the other hand, I'm quite inflexible myself. I don't make compromises and most certainly I don't give up on my standards, which makes it harder for me to find people, and I'm ok with this trade. I'd accept them being into other things as well, as long as they aren't what I consider weak, pathetic, unsuccessful and stupid. For example, I like hanging out with a guy who stares at women on the street with me and comments on how hard we'd smash her, but he is lazy and tries to push me into it as well, which annoys me a lot because I have much bigger plans.
What do you think?