Is it normal that i saw my 15 year old son wearing one of my thong panties?

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So this afternoon my son was helping me cook dinner. When he bent over to get a pot from under the cabinet his underwear was hanging out his jeans, and I noticed it was one of my thongs!! Shocked is a understatement. I chose not to say anything in the moment out of fear I would embarrass him and make him feel weird around me. Still don’t know how I’m gonna handle this. Any other mothers out there experienced this??

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  • 1WeirdGuy
    1 year ago

    Its 2022 hes probably exposed to this crap on TV and social media. Also look into his school teachers and make sure theres no LGBT flags and shit in his classrooms. Theyre glamorizing this shit to children. The rate of gay children has more than tripled in 10 years since they started this shit.

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    • Tinybird
      1 year ago

      there's no such thing as "gay children" if children are not sexual beings.

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      • notmyrealname123
        1 year ago

        who said children are not sexual beings

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  • Ligeia
    1 year ago

    You need to put parental controls on any devices he uses to stop him from watching porn. Seriously, there's a huge chance he's pornbrained. Parental filters. Ability to check search history. Ability to see what apps he's installed on his phone.

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    • davidzztop
      1 year ago

      This is good advice. Although you should be doing it a lot earlier than when your kid is 15.

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  • davidzztop
    1 year ago

    15 year old boys wearing panties is not normal. However, if that is his thing then that’s his thing. You will not be able to change what he likes. However, him wearing his mothers panties? 🤮🤮🤮
    You need to put your foot down because that is not righteous behaviour. Let him go and buy his own panties if he really must. You should have told him there and then. Don’t be to hard on him, but don’t try to be one of those fuckwit Liberal “cool” parents either.

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    • Cable4nerds
      1 year ago

      I enjoy the last part of this

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  • Anonnet
    1 year ago

    Surprised this got any Yes votes.

    First off, the kid's 15. There's no need to treat him as if he's 5. It's one thing to be curious about crossdressing, it's another thing entirely to steal your mom's clothes and wear them IN FRONT OF HER.

    It doesn't necessarily mean he's gay or anything, and I don't know why these guys are so quick to turn this into a meeting on The Gay Agenda. Give your kid the side-eye and put a lock on your drawer. It's up to you if you want to confront him about it, but the kid's 15, he should know better. There's this thing called "shame" and he should know what is.

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  • oldgoat65
    1 year ago

    I'd rather see mum wearing that thong

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  • malaparte
    1 year ago

    Give him the "eat it or wear it" ultimatum and tell him that the latter is not really an option.

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  • litelander8
    1 year ago

    That was really nice of you to hold back. I’m super impulsive and definitely would’ve blurted out a few shocked statements. Lol

    I’d definitely ask him about it. Hopefully it’s not a sexual thing towards you. I’d just keep at we don’t wear other people’s underwear. And if he likes that kind he can have his own. But I would personally recommend only wearing them at home for now. Kids are fucking weird.

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    • davidzztop
      1 year ago

      Do not be the parent that takes your son out shopping for girls thongs. Tell him not to wear yours, but then leave him be. If he wants them that bad he’ll get his own.

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      • litelander8
        1 year ago

        Do parents not buy underwear for their kids? 15 is a pretty solid age to decide on underwear preferences.

        Remember when women wearing thongs meant they were sluts? Now it’s completely normal.

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        • Cable4nerds
          1 year ago

          I think he’s suggesting you not be the parent who brings her SON to pick out thongs as an acceptable choice of underwear. And if he wants to wear them bad enough, he will find a way to get them for himself..

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        • Anonnet
          1 year ago

          Franky, no, they don't. At 15? He's in high school, he's got a phone and an allowance, he can order things if he's too embarrassed to do his own shopping.

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          • litelander8
            1 year ago

            Are you OP? Bc every family is different. My bf is 26 and we had to tell his mom to stop buying him socks and underwear.

            Again, the argument of style of underwear isn’t worth loosing the trust of a teenager. But if y’all wanna shame your kids over little shit, go for it.

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            • Anonnet
              1 year ago

              I'm not the OP, no, I'm just speaking from how I was at that age. When you said she was buying underwear for him, I thought you were talking about actually going in and shopping with him.

              Not buying him underwear is not losing his trust. I'm not sure if that's what you meant by that, but if it is, no. She's not shaming him by not buying him crossdressing underwear. She can just continue to buy him regular underwear if she's doing that, and that's regardless of whether she confronts him about it, because no matter what the outcome, it's not her job to be shopping out panties for a teenage boy.

              I wouldn't wish it on any mother to have to figure out the sizing and dimensions for that.

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  • Wryladradofft
    1 year ago

    I don't think it's abnormal for teenagers to be curious about crossdressing, but stealing your underwear is a pretty clear breach of privacy that you should confront him about. It's almost certainly not a sexual thing towards you, it almost certainly has nothing to do with his school or the "gay agenda", and it most likely has nothing to do with him watching porn. Just talk to him about it, and try to be understanding while making it clear that he shouldn't be stealing your (or anyone else's) underwear

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    • Anonnet
      1 year ago

      Frankly, I think if a talk takes place, it should be about more than just theft.

      The possibility of it being influenced by the internet is pretty high if the only thing he took is a pair of panties and he was wearing it around the house under his normal clothes. That's not just crossdressing, and if he took zero precautions to ensure it wouldn't be visible if he bent over, anything could be on the table. Of course it could be nothing (a dare, for instance, especially if he has brothers)... or it could be something. Just depends on whether she wants to have that talk.

      But if she does have that talk, she's going to have to be prepared for more than just giving a short lecture about stealing being bad.

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  • trexagireve
    1 year ago

    I am sure he is sniffing them too

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  • trexagireve
    1 year ago

    He needs some testicles spanking from you because of his bad behaviour

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