Is it normal that i self harm?

Normal is overrated. Hurting yourself won't make you feel more normal. Anything you were born, unless it harms others, is something you just have to own.

Funny that one of my new favorite quotes is from a fictional character. On the show he speaks to Jon Snow but in the book speaks the quote to Bran.

“Never forget what you are, for surely the world will not. Make it your strength. Then it can never be your weakness. Armour yourself in it, and it will never be used to hurt you.”
~Tyrion Lannister~

Hey I know what you are going through, trust me. You need to trust a friend or teacher and tell them about your sexuality and harming. Do it in stages if it helps x

I know many people that have recovered from self harm! You can too!

I' voting it's normal, because it is. You've been through a lot and that makes you feel like you deserve the pain. I understand you, I'm also pan sexual and gender fluid and I know how much it is hard for me to feel excepted, although I'm not out I my family. it is normal but that doesn't mean you should keep doing it. Just remember, your not alone, you should not be going through this alone, you can get pass this, you only need to remember :
Don't stop trying, stop hurting your self that won't help people except you. Your not alone, you can get pass this and you can when your old enough get away from the people that don't except you and live your life like you want!

I've done that a few times. Twice I (very shallowly, but deep enough to leave subtle scars) cut my wrist while on LSD.
Another time I got drunk and shot myself in the left hand with a bb gun; it's still in there.
That being said, in a sober state of mind, I probably wouldn't self harm.
In my cases of self-harm, it wasn't about punishing myself or a desire to feel pain, but rather my fascination with blood.
I'm guessing you already know the answer to your question, as it's fairly obvious, but I'll say it anyway; no, it's not normal to self-harm; it's abnormal behavior.

Yes. A great way to fix the problem too. Whenever someone you like dies, just pick up a knife and cut your flesh, that will bring them back, won't it?