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Im a 22 yr old girl goin on 23 living with my parents. is it normal i still have a curfew which is midnite ??????????
Sounds like they don't want to let their little girl go!
You should have a discussion with them. The only thing you should be doing is letting them know how late you'll be out.
You're still in their house. It could be partly they don't want their little girl to grow up and partly an issue with maintaining peace of mind.
I said no but dude think about it: their house, their rules. If your that old and living at their house, you are obliged to follow their rules. Just like you would at any apartment or rented house (even though those rarely have curfews they still have their rules).
Move out, and set your own rules.
Of course that may not be an option at the moment, but maybe something to work on doing. :)
If you are living in their house, their rules still apply. Which is why i moved out.
Just miss it a couple times and then say well I'm 22 so I can take care of myself well enough and they will hopefully get the point.
It's supposed to stop at 18. Usually, parents just expect you to call to let them know you'll be home late.
Yes and no, but mostly yes. Although you are of legal age... The bottom line is, you are living under your parents roof. If you want some freedom, save up some money through working and find your own place.
Ugh that's unfortunate but since it is their house, there's not much you can do. I believe my parents would have done the same but I got out at 18 and moved to a different city.
It's not really fair since you're old enough to do what you want. If you can afford to move out, you should so you can live by your own rules. But if you can't afford to move I understand, I'm 20 and still live with my parents because I can't afford to move yet. I'm working on it though.
I think if you live under their roof and such, they are allowed. Think about, would you want someone coming home at 3 in the morning when you have work the next day. If you don't like their rules, move out. Simple.
I lived with my parents until I was 22... I did NOT have a curfew. I don't think it's normal but I guess since you're under their roof they have a right to kick you out if you don't adhere to their rules.
My mum never bothered with a curvew, she knew that i wouldn't listen so she let me do my own thing.
The day I turned 18 was the day I stopped be answerable to anyone, my parents included! You are a fully grown adult and should be allowed to make your own decisions and come and go as you please. I think your parents do not want to let their little girl go, and as a parent myself I fully understand, however ther comes a time when they have to. x