Is it normal that i still wet the bed

Hello everyone this is my first honest post as all my other ones were lies just for reactions I am 17 and this is the most embarrassing secret I have. I don't know what to do but its on my mind every day and it bothers me so much... I still wet the bed. I have tried everything, I went to the doctor and nothing is wrong with me at all. I was abused as a child and I'm wondering if maybe it has something to do with it. I have done this all my life and it's so bad that I can never go out to a girls house all night otherwise I'll pee on her and it hurts me so much that I can never have children for what woman would want a man who can't sleep with her? None of my girlfriends have known as I have stayed awake all night and dehydrated myself to the point of severe migraines. I sometimes even have a hard time holding in the day and this concerns me that maybe it is physical but all in all this is a very traumatizing thing that's been haunting me all my life. Is there anyone out there that has this? If so please help me I feel so alone in this world because nobody else has this. Anyone just please give me feedback I know it's not normal and its gross and pathetic but still try to be nice about it.

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Based on 27 votes (4 yes)
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  • seekelp

    Speaking to a medical professional would be wise.

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    • Ellenna

      Read the fifth line

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  • IRonMan78

    I had the same issue. I ended up going to a psychiatrist, he prescribed some pills that I took for a month. After that I never wet to bed. This was back in 1977 so I don't remember the name of the medication.

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  • itsSnowing

    Any normal doctor would have given you a prescription for medicine to help you stop wetting the bed. You might want to talk to another doctor.

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  • danamarsh11

    You need to see a specialist. Maybe a urologist, or maybe even a psychiatrist. I don't think your problem is "unfixable." You just need the right doctor, diagnosis, and treatment.

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  • wistfulmaiden

    It could a nerve problem or even a spinal misalignment. I'd maybe get a brain scan. Hope you find a way to help this it's no fun. Remember it's not your fault.

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