Is it normal that i suddenly feel awkward and weird with friends?

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I was fairly popular and hung out with many people into football season and after it for some time. But once it hit January, it started becoming awkward with many of the friends that I have been close with. I dont know what caused this and why it all of a sudden happened.

p.s. they know i smoke pot and they all told me they dont mind that i do it.

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  • Browniegirl3
    11 years ago

    I think that you need to get to know yourself more and learn to accept all of you. I'm struggling with the same thing.I think way too much of trying to say the right thing and impress people. Don't try to impress people. Stop trying and care less. Read Be Yourself, Everyone else is taken by Mike Robbins. Trust me it works magic. You also need to put in the work. We want fast results but lasting change takes time. Set little goals for yourself. Like smiling more and little by little you'll be happier. You might have to fake it at first but then it will come naturally. Start listening more to people instead of doing the talking. Everyone loves to talk about themselves. Show them that your interested in what they have to say. No one likes one uppers. Hope this helps.

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  • Choclateman47
    11 years ago

    Maybe you used to act differently around all your friends just to fit with themThis isn't a bad thing. For example you probably treat your grandma different then your mom. Now compare 2friends. When you smoke weed I believe it connects you with your inner self more. Next time your with friends just live in the moment. Feel the energy being created by the environment your in and be yourself in that environment. I started doing this and I noticed that I feel ALOT more comfortable not only with friends but with strangers. It's amazing. Now that I've found this out I stopped smoking because I feel like I learned what I needed to from weed.

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  • 1000yrVampireKing
    11 years ago

    This happened to me the year I was going to graduate. I do not know why either. Maybe you have outgrown everyone. Maybe you are just maturing.

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  • Mysterio
    11 years ago

    Could be the weed. Like alcohol affects everyone differently so does weed lay off the weed for a bit (bear in mind it takes 4 to 6 weeks to leave you system completely) If you find your more like your old self then problem solved if not then take a look at your life recently has there been any big changes etc

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  • NiceKitty
    11 years ago

    Just come out of the closet and those awkward feelings will dissipate over time. Drugs only mask the inner feelings.

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  • Jimbobasaur
    11 years ago

    I'll be your friend :D

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