Is it normal that i think my girlfriend is ugly?

I think she's honestly ugly. I mean, I don't like her smile...her gums show, I don't like her facial structure, and I don't really like her eyes. I just am not attracted to her face at all. However, she has a nice body, and I have feelings for her. I genuinely like this girl, but I really think she's ugly. I don't know what to do, I don't want to get fed up with her and end up regretting staying with her. Anyone else been in this situation?
What do I do?

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Comments ( 32 )
  • DudeUrFuglyXox

    then why are u going out withher, let her go so she can be with someone who actually likes her

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  • Mimi69

    I bet you're ugly too.

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  • livelove12

    Your an asshole

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  • moviemaniac0101

    WHY did you even ask her out then? I mean come on!!

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  • alv1592

    lol...just don't ever tell her that.

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  • Tisgranum

    I think it's normal. Plenty of people going out with ugly people and many of them aren't blind.

    The same people who are bitching at you on this thread would probably bitch at somebody who says they won't go out with someone because of looks. Well, guess what, you have been the bigger man and are going out with someone despite of looks; cuddos!

    I think it really depends on how looks are important to you, but you may very well learn to love that ugly broad. You never know I guess.

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  • jellybee

    Lol man why would you go out with her in the first place if she's ugly?

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  • Pancakes101

    if you are already contemplating leaving her then leave her already. me thinks you are attracted to her body, not her genuinely. i've known some people who i didn't think were attractive at first impression, but as I got to know them, they became more beautiful to me. go find someone else; she deserves a boyfriend who thinks she's beautiful.

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  • dump the ugly bitch.

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    • DJ_Sandhu

      Hi x

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  • la_uva_mojada

    you are so young and immature, so focused on the superficial. i feel sorry for u, bcuz youll end up being fuct over, taken advantage of by some hot girl, that is a devil on the inside.. that will be the source of extreme misery. you should look up this hot chick from florida on you tube named dahlia dippolito. its an interesting tale..

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  • VirtualMannequin

    I think it's perfectly normal for a woman to be viewed as ugly! It's impossible not to with such ridiculous standards! Then again, I'm just a cynic.

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  • My troll penis will vanquish her vagina and make her so pretty that you will suck my dick as a thank you. But shell be as fat as shit though

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  • mango262

    If you dont love her. Dump her.
    Coz without love, the relationship will anyway wont last forever..
    But if you love her, then its not normal to find her ugly, you must love her imperfections too

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  • sandinmyambergerbuns

    the thing about loving someone is that you love everything about the person, even her imperfections.

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  • TyLee

    Hmmm... at least you are honest. I hate when guys have ugly girlfriends and brag about how hot they are.

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    • Ldizzy1234

      Totally agreed!

      But really, as tough as it might be for you to do, you should let her go if you're not happy with the way she is. And seriously, it will be really helpful for her too.

      However, you can also look at it this way, looks do fade anyway.

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  • Mel

    No, but unlike you...Im not an asshole.

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  • Mel

    Always remember...looks fade with time.

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  • trytoforgetthis

    Honestly, I think it's normal.
    You were obviously attracted to this "butter-face" for different reasons and she seems to have grown on you.
    There are two main things that can happen----either you grow to like her face and just deal with the fact that she's ugly, OR you man-up, be a douche and dump her based on this physical letdown.
    Either way, why go out with her if she's ugly? Just for the body? hahahahaha....fail.

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  • beearch

    try putting a paper bag over her ugly mug. She might not like it but will still hang around, she knows blokes aren't lining up to service the ugly birds!

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    • chewy

      i just laughed so hard XD

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  • Tuxedocat

    Fuck you

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  • aayanna79

    If you didn't think she was pretty, then why get involved with her ?? Sounds like you just wanted to use her in the beginning for sex...smh... Reading this makes me surprised that guys actually think so low of another human being... Its sad and pathetic. If you're not attracted to them in the beginning then don't use them...smh

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  • TwoThumbs

    Awww. To be young and stupid.

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  • Allistalla

    You are so mean ! you should think she is the most buietiful women on earth !

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  • rockie2014

    If you really liked her that much and if it was a strong relationship, I can't see you thinking that she's ugly. You might say that she isn't beautiful to everyone but you wouldn't come right out and call her ugly if you loved her. I suspect your relationship isn't that serious, therefore, I don't think it's fair to either of you to continue.

    Bottom line: If she is that important to you and you love her, you would think she's beautiful. You deserve to think that of your girlfriend and she deserves to be thought of that way.

    Good Luck :)

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  • kayla8

    hmmm.. well u know they say looks rnt the main thing its her personality but it wud b hard if your not sexually attracted to your partner... maybe try think about things u do like about her face ? n at least u dont have to worry as much about other guys hitting on her

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  • MelRose

    this is normal

    ..... but this question very degrading for your girlfriend. Maybe if your so obsessed with her looks you don't deserve to be in a relationship with her?? you feel her only redeming feature is her body but you don't like looking at her face, she diserves someone who loves her because of and dispite her flaws.

    It is also a possibility that this girl is actually very beautiful but either you just can't see it or your standard of beauty is set impossibly high due to the sexualisation of women in the media.

    either way if your questioning your relationship and sanity because of your girlfriend's looks, you just shouldn't be with her.

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  • xoxo29

    Is she a butterface? ...everthing looks good, but her face. J/K. Anyway, that us horrible! She deserves to be with someone who appreciates every dingle thing about her! Do her a favor and get the hell out of her life!!

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  • cityandlove

    haha .. butter face. If you wanna keep her, stock up on the paper bags buddy :)) orrrr you can do the cliche, "it's not you, it's me" and "we can still be friends". Take it this way, if y'all ended up married how would you feel about waking up next to that face every morning? I mean .. unless y'all sleep opposite ways and you wake up seeing her feet or ass or something. Ehh, if this is a serious question then I'd say if you have honest to god 'i'd love you even if you were ugly' feelings for her then stick with it. But if she's just a passing fling or you don't see the relationship honestly growing or going anywhere, then let her know. But by all means DO NOT tell her you think her face is ranky!!! You will be labled the biggest douche on earth if you told her she was ugly then broke up with her, and well, there goes all hope of ever having sex again for you. Word spreads fast when you're dealing with women. Sadly.

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  • u don't need to be with a pretty girl, love her for her imperfections and if that doesnt work out break up w her, better for you

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