Is it normal that i think that most girls feel guys are creepy

I’ve heard people say that I’m creepy before behind my back. Sometimes when I don’t shave for too long or someone doesn’t hear me coming. But in the back of my head I feel that most women think most guys are creepy for any reason that pops in their head. If a guy watches too much porn bc a girl won’t give him a date. Or he said something weird. Is it normal to think like this. I’m afraid to approach women now or even look at them in public so I don’t give a creepy vibe. Can I get some feedback from guys and girls on this. Thanks

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Based on 6 votes (4 yes)
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  • McBean

    Girls will say why they think you're creepy, but it is a subjective judgement that will make no sense to the male mind. In most cases it is simply means you are not attractive. A small minority of more mature girls will put unattractive guys in the friend zone and allow them to win a reasonable amount of respect. If you are unattractive like me, do not think most girls are your friends. They will rip you to shreds with vindication simply because they don't like how you look.

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  • Hateful1

    Most women judge all men they are not attracted to as creepy. Because if they aren't attracted to you, or your money, you are useless, and should die.

    I think all women I'm not attracted to as BBD's. Which is most of them because most are BBD's and I hate that.

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  • athem

    Some girls may be wary of guys that give a creepy vibe because they've had negative experiences in the past with creepy guys (and vice versa), so they may be a little cautious at first. I can't speak for all girls, but I wouldn't say that anything coming from an ugly guy or that I didn't expect is creepy. I'd only really call it that if what the guy was doing made me feel uncomfortable or uneasy but, like I said, if someone's had issues with creeps in the past then they may get uncomfortable a little faster and could jump to those conclusions.

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  • MrDexter

    Well you are not wrong. That's what you get when you raise boys to get some ass no matter what it takes. While shaming females for having any impure thought. Then we end up with this huge predator mentality. The hounds chasing the rabbit meteophir comes to mind.

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  • LuxM4G

    Be confident with the women bro, say to yourself: "I am the master of the clit." Go get them tiger.

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  • StevenL

    Thanks. I feel better after hearing that. So I’ll try not to let what they say effect me as much

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  • StevenL

    Ok. I thanks for the input. It may be due to the fact because I am a little weird to be honest. I am not comfortable in social settings so maybe I give off that vibe. It is not deliberate though. Tonight for example I was in my room and I heard someone coming down the steps and I opened the door and my mom looked up and thought I was in the bathroom and I came out of the guest room to greet her and she told me she thought it was creepy because I came from the wrong room and it surprised her. I will try to have a woman approach me in the future if she is interested. I personally think anything a guy does that a woman doesn’t expect or like or if it is from an ugly guy in their opinion is creepy

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  • Friedchiken

    Well as an 18 year old girl, in my own opinion if a girl is calling you creepy it's either from the general vibe they get from you, (somebody weird and awkward usually) or they think you're just trying to get into their pants or somewhere along those lines. I couldn't tell you why girls think you're creepy specifically, but imo that's usually why a girl would call you creepy.

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  • RoseIsabella

    Well, I certainly have no interest dating anyone who looks at porn, nor do I care to date anyone to whom I'm not attracted. I was at a costume party on Saturday this past weekend and a guy who was 18 years my junior was hitting on me. I did at least manage to feel somewhat flattered, but honestly if he and I were the same age I certainly wouldn't be interested either. Not only was he unattractive, we had nothing in common. At least he was very polite and respectfull toward me, but honestly it was annoying. He was only talking to me because of my looks. He was just looking at me, and not paying attention to anything I said, it was just random meaningless small talk.

    I wish I had the power to make myself ugly to men I have no interest in so I don't have to waste time with polite small talk just hoping they will take the hint, realize that we have nothing in common and bugger off!

    Women tend to dislike creeps, because they can't take the hint, and just leave us alone. Creeps will just stand there staring, and maybe try to make meaningless small talk, but they're only bothering women who are attractive and not interested. Creeps never have sense to go after girls who are like themselves.

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    • Hateful1

      Did you try talking about something meaningful? Or did you do like most women and make the guy have to carry the conversation?

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    • McBean

      What you said gives me a ray of hope. How can a creep tell if a girl is like he is? Most guys want women like themselves, but creeps have trouble being perceptive enough to identify them. You can identify creepy women. Are there signs to look for? Please please help us. How do you, RoseIsabella, know which women are creepy or creep compatible?

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