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so my boyfriend was getting mad because i don't like sex and just talking about sex makes me feel like a freak like a whore i feel like God is gonna hate me if i think or talk about sex or even doing it i don't think I'm asexual i just think i have a low sex drive i have no interest in sex makes me feel bad is it normal for a girl to feel like this
It takes two to tango. So if you are experiencing, what you call bad sex, then look in the mirror for the cause. You only get out of a relationship or activity what you put into it. Bad sex to you sounds like you didn't get that piece of bling or a car out of it. Or were dumped too many times.
Yes. Asexuality is valid and so is low sex drive and anything else that can cause a dislike of sex. The issue here is being with a partner who needs sex to feel satisfied in a relationship, which most people do, but there are men with low sex drive as well. It's very important that your sex drives match in a relationship. There is sex therapy for people who struggles with sex. It could be good for you especially if there is a level of shame involved too. You then need to basically unlearn that sex is shameful. Maybe couples therapy, so your partner can understand what's going on.
Somewhat normal esp depending on how youre raised your beliefs etc.
Also many men dont know what feels good to women during sex so theres that.
So you find him attractive but have a low sex drive and a lot of religious shame around sex and sexual thoughts? I agree with kikilizzo that you should consider talking to a sex therapist about this. Or at least research shame around sex and navigating relationships where one partners libido is much higher.
Do you think god hates you? Or you have a low sex drive? Sounds like the god thing is an excuse.
My ex never wanted to fuck and it really made me feel not good enough, unattractive, etc. I tried not to hold it against him but in the end I couldn’t get over it. That’s just my angle. Hopefully y’all can come to an agreement.