Is it normal that im scared no one will ever love me ?

Ive always felt really ugly and I know im not as pretty or have as nice of a body as my friends and im scared no man/boy will ever love me for who i am. I think they'll just use me for sex and never actually want to spend time with me or anything. No man/boy will ever be thinking about me 24/ 7.

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Comments ( 11 )
  • lc1988

    You need to love yourself before someone will love you. Be confident!

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  • Beauty captures the eye, but personality captures the heart.

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  • dom180

    There is probably a guy who feels just like you. If you know enough guys as friends, there is a good chance that at least one of them does like you but is too shy/scared/embarrassed/friend-zoned to ask you out.

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    • Anonymus_Coward

      Here's one of em. I feel exactly like that.

      To many women just want me for my wallet and looks, but dont give a crap about me... :/

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      • dom180

        It is a pity that men like you and women like the OP rarely seem to find eachother :(

        It would be nice if there was some quick-fix way of solving these situations, but there isn't one because if there was you would all be happy. All you can do is keep searching in the right places and hope that you eventually meet someone. Contrary to most cliches, life is long, not short, and the odds are stacked in your favour to find someone who understands you.

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  • BIGHAIRYMAN

    LOL

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  • justaskingt

    This has already been said before but I don't think people understand how important it is. You yourself deserve your love and affection. You have to learn to love yourself before you can expect someone else to love you. If you dont, you'll keep getting into unfulfilling relationships with the wrong people.

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  • crystalclear2561

    Im 16 and have never felt some one really love me so I'm in the same spot

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  • bozo3166

    Am the same way

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  • NewYorkLover

    Thanks for all the help guys...if you have any more advise keep it coming ! Im just to insecure about my flaws :(

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  • i used to feel like that till i met my now fiance.... we r waiting for marriage to have sex.. though neather one of us is a virgin but we wana make sure that its not all bout sex like our past relationships!... you need to love yourself enough to believe you are worthy of love and that love is out there, also that any guy would b proud to have a someone like you!

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