Is it normal that im scared of nice people?

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I've discussed this with people around me like my family and close friends and they either laugh in a nice way thinking that is impossible or say that Im not used to nice people around me.
I have no idea how to react to nice-ness, I am a nice person myself, im shy around new people but fully outgoing towards people i know well, but no matter who the person is if they are thanking me or saying sorry I cant handle it I freeze up and Its not like im embarassed I just dont know what to say is there any way I can get used to nice comments, I cant put on a fake smile or greeting towards them but I think im socially awkward and I have no idea where to start on changing my ways.

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  • Dizzee
    12 years ago

    The only friend I have right now it the nicest person I know, but I have to admit when I first met her, I was freaked out by how nice she was and even told her so. She said something like: "Well, this world needs more nice people." Honestly, I'm proud to say that I'm still her friend.

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    • DolphinAngel
      12 years ago

      "Lo perfecto siempre es sospechoso"... Means something like the one who seem perfect can't be real because a person who is really perfect does not exist... we seem not to believe that a person is really good and that's why we are afraid that a nice person (/who seems nice) is actually not so nice and just fooling you!

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      • Dizzee
        12 years ago

        Well... I doubt this girl is fooling me. I've known her for about three years and she always sticks to her word. However, I also know her flaws so she isn't perfect by any means, she just nice.

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        • DolphinAngel
          12 years ago

          Yeah I didn't want to say sth. like that... I just wanted to say that we tend to not believe something perfect^^

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          • Dizzee
            12 years ago

            Oh, I see. Alright. :3

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