Is it normal that master/slave (bdsm) annoys me online?

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I have no issues with BDSM in real life. If people have a Master/Slave dynamic, then I'm okay with that. However when people bring it online it annoys me. Like when some woman posts; "I'm so happy to be with my master, he treats me like a good slave, and let me sleep in the bed tonight."

I get peeved, because at that point it sounds less like consenting adult, and more like someone who's been broken/conditioned. I mean in private is fine, but when they make posts like that I'm like; "Okay this is your husband/wife you don't need to refer to them as Master 24/7, you can literally call them your husband, fiance, lover, etc. You're making it sound like they literally own you and it goes beyond just a sexual kink.

Is it normal? Anyone else get annoyed by this?

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  • DemonLOVER
    6 years ago

    Ehh for me i love the master/slave/pet kink or wherever i think its cute but maybe thats just because i call my freind master but i really don't mind when people call eachother kitten/master but thats just my opinion

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  • Ellenna
    9 years ago

    The thing with BDSM etc is that it's a fetish and practtioners need to keep ramping it up as the novelty wears off each stage. Making the master/slave relationship public could be part of increasing the excitement, as in: "Look at me, what a bad girl I am!"

    Some master/slave couples DO in fact have 24/7 relationships as a lifestyle and from what I've seen up fairly close, this often becomes obsessive and ultimately addictive, and eventually ends up affecting the person's finances, employment, health and family/friend relationships.

    In my opinion, games ok, 24/7 obsessive relationships no.

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  • Couman
    9 years ago

    The only part that annoys me is that stupid D/s capitalization game.

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