Is it normal that my boyfriend looks at my 11 year old sister

My boyfriend looks at my 11 year old sisters butt. For her age she has a quit big one and her body looks older than her age. Am just getting paranoid because i dont know what goes through his mind when he looks. My mom saw him look once and she said there is nothing sly in his eyes. Its an innocent look. But i need answers why he looks. Please help is this normal? I"ll prefer answers from a mans point of view!

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Based on 441 votes (237 yes)
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  • TerryVie

    Really. how about not omitting your age?

    If you and your friend are 12 and he looks at your 11-year-old sisters ass, thats one thing.

    If you are 25 and your friend is 32, and he looks at your 11-year-old sisters ass, thats a different story.

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    • Chrishall

      Well when i was 24 the girl next door was 10 and the only way i noticed that she had a nice arse was cause every time i was there she would blend over or even rub her arse up against me ,she was hot and that fine arse i just wanted to lick it , im 35 now and im still thinking of her beautiful arse

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    • topper33

      thats right

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  • Gelmurag

    I'm an older guy, and can honestly say a look doesn't mean "I want," unless your guy is sitting there rubbing himself, or hanging his tongue out.

    As a male I'll look at anything with an ass. Its not limited by age, or species. You ever watch a dog poop? A cat? Its human nature to look.

    Like I said, unless he's making it blatant, or when you two have sex he calls out her name, there's nothing to worry about.

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    • blaster

      One of the few sensible comments here. You all fall for what your told to do by dictators=gov'and bs laws, like obedient little puppy dogs.

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    • Angel7

      How old are you.?

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      • Gelmurag

        28 why?

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        • Angel7

          Just wondering. Because you said that you and older guy and i wanted to know how old.

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          • Gelmurag

            I look at anything with an ass. Boy, Girl, man, woman, cat, dog, demon, ghost, alien. If it has an ass, I'm looking. haha.

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            • Angel7

              Hahaha. Your funny..:-)

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  • AssBurgers

    Tell us his fucking age!

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    • Angel_in_a_Glass_Dress

      This. No one can really declare normal or abnormal without knowing if the boyfriend is 12 or 18 or 30.

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  • GuеssWho

    whats not normal about that? *perverted grin*

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    • topper33

      lol

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      • GuеssWho

        *is behind toppers*...nice ass :3

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  • xXScYtHeXx

    I don't see anything wrong with this for a few reasons. It's human nature to look at asses, age isn't a factor, the human species seems to like ass, I don't think there's anything wrong with him as long as he's just looking and not touching or wanking.

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  • Imsupernormal

    I bet she already lost her virginity to him.

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    • topper33

      the way some girls at that age look today you may be right

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  • Avant-Garde

    There's something "odd" about him. Dump him now before it gets even "stranger"!

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  • "nothing sly in his eyes"

    Nothing sly in the harmless baby raper eyes of evil!!!!

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  • thehalfgoodgirl

    tell him to smell it tell your sister to not wash her butt and let it stink and force him to smell your sister’s booty

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  • Blue_Velvet

    Your boyfriend is 20?? Then its not normal.

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    • Chrishall

      Fuckin othe it's normal im 35 if i see a nice arse im looking doesn't matter how old they are

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  • ginz

    I can understand a guy looking at such a young girls ass I mean I do it to at times but that doesn't mean I wanna do anything sexual with them it's just natural for men to look at ass. HOWEVER, it's just too weird to be looking at ur gf's little sisters ass like come on its safe to say he's a complete pervert. a normal man is able to suppress the need to look at girls ass when they r with their gf but if he cannot stop himself looking at an 11 year old girls ass when he's around his gf's home then he's a complete pervert.
    Thats my opinion. it may not be true but very unlikely.

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    • Angel7

      I believe the opposite though. He does it in front of me because maybe he has nothing to hide.

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      • saduJ18

        Well it sounds like you've already made up your mind, why ask?

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  • Angel7

    His 20 and am 19

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    • RaNdOmPoPcOrN

      Does he get a boner around her ever?

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      • Angel7

        Come on guys, HELL NO..!

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        • RaNdOmPoPcOrN

          Is your name chasity?

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          • BrendioEEE

            I guess it is cuz she never responded :O

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  • alv1592

    If he thinks she's a cute kid in a non-sexual way, that's okay. Anything beyond that, definitely no. Break up with him right away if he ever touches her.

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  • JellyLove

    How old is he

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  • Justsomejerk

    Sometimes I stare off into space and when I catch myself my eyes have focused onto tits or arse. It's not on purpose, it just happens. Sometimes the tits or arse are not connected to an adult and you have to go whoops and look away. As long as he catches himself and stops looking it may well be innocent. If he's perving on your sister then slap him.

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    • Angel7

      He does look away he doesnt stare.! She has a big ass for her age lol.!! I catch myself sometimes looking.

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      • topper33

        Angel7 has anything happened? its been a while since you wrote this i was just wondering is all

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  • SLAYERoftheWICKED

    What a sick little monkey!!

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  • shuggy-chan

    well if he doesnt look ike he fapping or licking his lips as he is cleaning his pervert glasses with his shirt pulled up so his belly hangs out, then whats the harm?

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    • rosebudmarie

      The harm is that she is 11 years old. And you don't know what's going through his head when he looks at her ASS... Most likely I attracted though.

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  • Theycallme

    Looking at it more than once seems like it isn't accidental, and if it's on purpose there is no excuse, and it's wrong. If he's looked enough for both you and your mother to notice, there is a problem.

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    • Chrishall

      There's no harm in looking and fantasizing as long as you don't act , you know the saying " a arse like a 10 year old boy" Well a 10 year old girl is even better

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  • Aleks85

    Lol I used to check out my ex's 14 year old sister. Not like I was gonna do anything, no harm in looking. You girls trip too much.

    (and no she's not my ex because I glanced at her sister a few times) before someone goes there.

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    • Angel7

      How old where you .?

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    • topper33

      young girls have great looking asses. theres nothing wrong with looking

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  • Shackleford96

    Short and simple: because he's a guy. There's your answer.

    He still may be a pervert though since she's only 11 years old. Maybe something needs to be said to him that the way he is looking at her is inappropriate.

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    • rosebudmarie

      No excuse if he is a guy, she is 11 years old! Holy shit what has come to this world and the people in it? I'm scared

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      • Shackleford96

        Did you even read the second part of my reply where I said "He still may be a pervert..."

        I am not making excuses, I am simply explaining a potential reason for why he does this. I am not saying that it is right that he does this either.

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  • rekltalni

    not normal because he already has a girlfriend. Unethical.

    Normal because 11yr olds are slutty today and sexier than 16+ year olds.

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    • RaNdOmPoPcOrN

      ? not true

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  • thehalfgoodgirl

    butts attractive people nothing to worry about heck sometimes even buttholes attract people

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  • rayb12

    Looking isn't abuse. But if you don't trust him that's different.

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  • Robert1993

    It's normal to look, what is he looking at her ass, her boobs, what? Tell your sister to pull her panties down and let him see her naked butt and then I promise you he'll never look again

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  • fartonmyface

    As sick as it sounds, it's pretty normal. People check out other people, especially those of the opposite gender. I'm an adult and would never even consider being with someone underage, but I have looked at younger girls' bodies subconsciously. Today's youth is growing up so fast that sometimes its hard to distinguish the age of a younger person. Don't make him feel bad for just looking quickly at her butt. But if he stares for a long period of time and makes it really obvious that he's thinking bad things, then say something. Be like "why are you checking out my 11 year old sister?" and he'll feel embarrassed guaranteed. Don't make too much of an ordeal out of it. You sound relatively young yourself so I'm sure you and your boyfriend have some learning to do.

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  • jucedaguy

    "Nothing sly in his eyes"

    Girl, your mom's rooting him too.

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    • Chrishall

      Yeah I'd probably fuck him to

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  • Sniperdude416

    Does he get a hard on

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  • Angel_in_a_Glass_Dress

    As others have said - this ALL depends on your boyfriend's age.

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  • heyitsus

    Why not start by asking your boyfriend why he continues to look at your little sisters butt. I'm not sure just how BIG your little sisters butt is... is it like carnival freak big? If it is it might just one of those things you can't help but peek at. If its not and your boyfriend is checking her out then dump his pedo-butt. Start out with honest up front dialogue.

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  • MyNameIsRare

    He's probably going to wait for a certain age to fuck her =X

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    • Chrishall

      I'd just fuck her now cause when they get older there arses get bigger

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  • jucedaguy

    He prolly raids her hamper too.... Sicko.

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  • Corleone

    Talk to him about it.

    Maybe it's nothing. Maybe you're imagining things.

    Or maybe he's a pervert.

    I don't know, and the other random internet people out here don't know either.

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  • zackattack

    If your mom saw nothing wrong with it, than your probably too paranoid. Like if your sister's butt truly is unique, he may just be thinking "Hey what a gigantic butt". That's not too bad. However if it is sexual and your over 14, dump him immediately.

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  • kaxox

    dump him if he is older than 13.

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  • izakthegoomba

    I didn't vote. Can't possibly say without the ages of all involved.

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  • Lynxikat

    How old is your boyfriend?

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  • Boo!

    Depends on his age. I think its wrong and disgusting. Dump him you never know what he's really thinking. I wouldn't want a guy like that near my sister!

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  • jondoerandom

    http://www.youtube.com/watch?v=dh6wtATgJRs

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    • RaNdOmPoPcOrN

      lol!!!!

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  • Angel7

    We were ralking about kids that are over weight. My sister is chubby and he told me that she needs too loose weight for her age. That my also be one of the reasons he might be looking what do you think.? We have been 5years togerher. My sister was much younger now maybe his noticing her changes. What do you think.?

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    • blaster

      I reckon he's just thinking, little porker she needs to lose weight. Anyway there's no number on a girl sometimes ask any girl here and that use to be fine but it's more as in everything else now- we can't breath without it being politically correct or within some rule.In your case though I'd think nothin of it anyway if she's over weight, young chubby chics aren't attractive anyway.

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    • saduJ18

      Oh, now she's chubby. Well, she's got a great looking ass, then! Looking doesn't hurt anybody, I stare at my young niece's ass too, but I wouldn't touch it. Not till she's old enough... like 22

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      • Chrishall

        16 is old enough for me, ready to bleed ready to feed

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    • rosebudmarie

      Ummmm I don't see why he is staring at her ass when he is 11 years old. Even if he is surprise that she has a big ass, she isn't around your age (I'm guessing) !! How old are you? Over 15? It's wrong and whoever posts on this post and says "guys will be guys" they are full of shit and it's unbelievable how society brainwashes them to think that way! Yes, guys will be guys, but they shouldn't be perverts towards little girls!!

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  • aminormal321

    I'm an 18 year old guy, and I would have to say not normal. It seems a little odd, especially for your sisters age. I mean maybe his eyes wandered off into space and he didn't even know what he was looking at. However, if indeed he looked at it in arousal, yes, that's odd. If your sister were older or similar in age, the it would be normal. Unethical? yes, but not abnormal. To say that she's 11 and he's looking at her butt? Yeah that's weird, he should be focusing on your butt, lol!

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  • Hi.

    Imho, there's really no such thing as an "innocent look" in this case. I mean, this would be no big deal if she were 16 or so. But 11...?

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    • Chrishall

      The younger the better

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  • drumandpickchick

    You need answers from the law's point of view.

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    • saduJ18

      Oh dear god, NOW let's get the PIGS involved! That's stupid, who doesn't look at a cute bum?

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      • k10101010101010101010

        you can't get in trouble for looking at something. gimme a break.

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