Is it normal that my boyfriend wants me to have a 3some/gangbang?

Ive been with my boyfriend for 11months were are having a baby. We met online nothing naughty. We had so much in common bad and good things. Was very respectful never dirty talk or naughty pics wasasked of me. I actually started everything. Ive always been a very sexual person not proud of it but good at it. I will do my best to be your best. So I shared stories of 3somes in the past but explained I didnt enjoy them. I was made to by exs. Nothing good came of it and I had to be drunk or high to participate. We had sex it was normal. Later he shares fantasies and what he likes. Facials, anal, after penetrating having me taste and suck it off, deep throat etc so I had done a few things and I lived him so I studied the porn he watched and became the ultimate pornstar for him dressed exactly like he asked down to what color polish and panties he liked...he has a thing for panties I wear. I made sure I was always clean smelling and tasting sweet and never said no. He was very controlling and I liked that. We began to share what kinds porn we watch and got off to. It was basically the same but mine was more brutal and hardcore. He later said that was his ultimate fantasy and that no onr would ever do it. We dirty talk about it during sex a huge turn on for both but I told him I didnt want ti actually do in real life because it would ultimately end us. He said no he promised it would be different besutifu kissing having them worship me pleasuring me in every possible way. He made it sound hot. He knows its bad but he really wants it from me. He said it would only be until we married cause ee couldn't after it wouldn't be right. He said if i gave him this I would be his queen and he would be my slave. I said I would havent yet but since I said yes hes been duffer sweeter more attentive trying to change the things about his personality I didn't care for like his short fused temper. Only kind words and an efford he says he truly loves me things like this " Its why I need this from you so much. You have always made it feel good. I want to do this, make you feel good, show how much I worship you" " The need only grows every time I have you. You are THE FANTASY. Nothing and no one could ever feel as good as you." " I wish you knew how good you felt, and truly know the addiction for you" His words alone drive me insane...so is it possible will he still love me I'm so confused. My ex husband was okay with it he would still take me back it wasn't the problem I had the problem cause I wouldn't be able to share my love. Do please help me understand this....

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  • I must be more on the conservative side sexually because this is not in my realm.

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    • (s)aint

      You greatly surprised me there!xD

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      • Threesomes are not my thing. I still like turbo sluts though.

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        • (s)aint

          I've only tried foursomes , trying to get a threesome going.

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          • you should have a quintuplesome.

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    • Thanks for the honesty...
      I really need the feedback.

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      • You should not feel pressured to do anything you know deep down you are truly uncomfortable with. In my opinion this person does not seem to have a very high respect for you. I would never ask my significant other to partake in such activities because I find it very disrespectful. That is just how I was raised though.

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        • shuggy-chan

          I thought u were raised to like butt sluts lol

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          • Butt sluts are not human.

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        • Your not a Therapist. shut your stupid hole. Your just a dumb Teen or twenty something So Shut it!
          You were raised by wolves. dog. go bite me!

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      • I really need the feedback. Yeah cause your 2 stupid to make up your own mind crosseyed burrito. Your need help. your sic.

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        • Im sick okay thanks for your clinical observation.

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          • your not welcome crosseyed bignose taco no husband bitch!

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      • Your eyes r to close together u look crosseyed dog. tacobeyotch!

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        • Are you serious? Hahahaha your pre-pubescent insults are highly entertaining. Wow I really hope you arent an actual adult because I feel bad for those "real adults" that have to listen to your ridiculous mouth. Anyways try again cause you haven't hit a nerve yet....meow!!!

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          • Meow shut up ha ha your funny. LIke I said before your nothing but a taco piece of shit. now GET off MY SITE refried beans.

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            • A taco piece of shit very clever...refried beans silly stupid girl. Your inability to communicate properly really entertains me. Poor lonely dirty cat lady. Im sure someone out there will love you. No need for such bitterness. Things will get better I promise.

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  • peterr

    You shouldn't let him hurt you or take advantage of you. Never

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  • The threesome thing sounds normal...but everything else sounds psychotic.

    Run away.

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    • She's a Crab Whore. And Sex is what she's good at, cause that's what her trailer park mom taught her!

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      • I really do hope that you're not representative of the class of members coming in to this site.

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        • stay out of it dog. I am the DEVIL Ha ha!

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        • I second that...

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          • I second that..........ha ha ha fuck u dude, crosseyes, My friend said u look ugly in your pic and your eyes are too close together. we laughed at u. My man said im much prettier. so please crosseyed taco. give it up! so sad u have an ugly monkey baby.

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            • Wow you are that unsure of your looks you needed reassurance. Thats funny...you askedyour friend and your husband what a loser. Hahaha...your friend said I was ugly because shes just like you sad and lonely. But your husband said you were prettier hmmmm not ugly huh that just sounds like hes trying to be nice. Look I'm sorry if my looks intimidate you it happens. Im sure with a little Jenny Craig your husband will stop thinking of me when hes having to bang out your sloppy muff.

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          • I second that.........die!

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          • Your Racist agaist American, ur not allowed on my website. Im sick of you Fuck off bitch I got shit to do.

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            • What the fuck are you talking about? You make no fucking sense. Then get to it you vile ghetto trash. Move on go tend to your little kitties.

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    • What part is psychotic?

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      • U r psychotic. for trying to act like a smart fuck. If you had a man u wouldn't b in everyones business. so you must b fugggggggly. ha ha!

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        • Hmmmm not trying to act like a "smart fuck" sorry you lack basic communication skills. Its not my fault that you are too low class to understand basic English. I guess being Mexican has its advantages...we dont speak ghetto trailer projects trash talk. Also about being in everyones business if I recall this is my post sweetheart. So you are the tacky trashy intruder here.

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          • Shouldn't you be cleaning someones house or something . Ha Ha! I win u lose dumb TACOOOOOOOOOO!

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            • You win? Are you serious? You really think your poorly thought out insults affect me? I cant even be mad I actually feel sorry for you. I feel bad that your poor mother had you. Living her life regretting that she didnt swallow or abort you. Im sorry you werent hugged and loved as child.

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          • Who says sweetheart eewwww your like 50 yrs old. what a liar that pic aint you its your grand daughter. are u as crosseyed as her? beyotch I will never leave. GET IT CROSSEYES burrito!

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            • No sweety I just look that good. Dont hate cause I look that good. Cross-eyed burrito thats it thats all you got. You poor sad nasty ignorant lonely cat lady....my heart aches for you.

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  • handsignals

    "wow! This girl is so hot"
    Guy at back of gangbang "I can't even see a girl...there is a girl here...right guy's"

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  • Mart22

    For all condemners, haters, who comes to this forum, where people share their probles looking for help and in your comments you just trying to humiliate and make them feel even worse, I tell you a secret. It says all about you! You are no life, no soul drained out coward whos only happines are those 2 seconds when you hope somebody is even greater looser than you.. Wow so sad you have choosen this way... :-(

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  • Thanks to all those that replied maturely and honestly. Im very thankful.

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    • DiamondGirl

      thanks that Im a banned retard with a crack daughter Im very thankful that im an uneducated rican!

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    • DiamondGirl

      You got banned, that's what u get for fucking with me crosseyed Bastard with a kid with no daddy. ha ha ha! You are a charity case. I have a husband, Jewlery , and a sweet life. so go slit your throat and do the world a favor

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      • (s)aint

        Congratulations, you have managed to get to my nerves.

        This IS an accomplishment, but I'm more annoyed by the moderators of INN since they didn't ban your IP or are you accessing this site from a proxy? Either way you are a sad person, judging by your history that is displayed on your page all you ever DO is trashing other people, calling them names and overall acting like a complete reject.

        I know that you probably wont reply in a decent, mature manner to me but I do hope that I at least manage to get some thoughts going in your head since there ARE a human behind your user name. I'm just not sure about which kind of human ...
        This site is supposed to be supportive and friendly and you are currently working against such a thing. I was about to throw you a message but apparently I couldn't do that since neither one of us are Gold members.

        I will refrain from calling you names since I do believe that I'm the better person of you and I.

        Please take a step back, consider your actions and reactions because whatever you have said in this thread I have noticed that they ARE comments from a hurting or an annoyed person.

        I advice you to try and talk to someone instead of lashing out at strangers on line. I even noticed that you used MY comment to another one and asked him/her about meeting up in webcam and then calling him/her a coward ...

        Which is what I said to you before, wasn't it? I will never take you seriously through text because all you have managed to do is to piss me off by getting good, decent members banned from this site when, in fact, the only one that should have been banned is you.

        Myself I'm a very happy person that has a good, caring boyfriend whom I DON'T need to rub up in people's faces when I'm trying to bring them down.

        All I have heard you talk about is your husband that showers you in gifts and love, and surely it's fine by me if you wish to define yourself by this. If you don't want to be anything but a married woman sure, go ahead. I just hope that you aren't older than 20 because your behaviour is both sad and pathetic and you should stop pestering INN with your shitty comments.

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        • DiamondGirl

          I am gold u dumb skank. As for you.you are just a bored piece of shitdoody. lol don't send me message im bored of u stink ass. now piss off faggot.

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        • DiamondGirl

          Good, your r provoked, and if your 20 get your ass in college loser. Oh yeah your to stupid to b in college. Oh well guess you'll die alone now Fuck off! and stop pestering INN with your shitty comments. Oh yeah I don't need a webcam come on over and get some fucker. My man will toss you in the trash where u belong. I'll break my nails so I don't fight anymore. Sorry. Cum and get it. Coward. you will b banned soon. I hope. Little twat. blah blah blah Shut up already, your not helping anyone little boy so shut your hole! ha ha ha ha ha! Your lessie friend illcit kitty was banned and now she's dead oh well, you'll have to find another lesbo. oh well. bite me dog!

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  • You Nasty. and your man don't love u. my man would never ask me to do that. Because he respects me. Your man don't respect u. U must be a real dumb dog.

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    • (s)aint

      I'm willing to bet that you are religious! Most idiotic people are. You are probably American too ...

      Have you ever heard of a D/S relationship?

      Couples that communicate about their sexual desires are less likely to cheat on one another since me and my boyfriend tries to fulfil all our sexual dreams and desires, so there is really no reason for either one of us to search pleasure outside of our mutual agreements.

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      • Im not as fat as u piece of shit. And my husband loves me. so go to hell piece of shit! D?S no such thing. So fuck u!

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        • (s)aint

          Dominance/ Submission.

          You are awfully narrow-minded.

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      • my religion is none of your business whore. Get a husband than you will b worthy enough 4 me to speak to got it. no husband means your a loser. so fuck off!

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        • (s)aint

          You are religious then. I knew it. You seem to be provoked by what I say. Good!

          With your own words a woman is nothing without a husband? what sort of low-life talk is that? had I wanted to just find someone who'd marry me I'd find him quick.

          But I have STANDARDS. I may fuck cute people but it takes so much more than a cute face and a nice cock for me to wish to marry someone!

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          • Your r religious then I knew it. Your pray to the cock monster. ha ha ha. Shut up loser LIke I said I have a rich husband and u have nothing. So you want a piece of me huh? come on down fucker. were waitin 4 u/ u don't ever fuckin threatin me or you' will be in the pen with the other hogs get it dog.

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          • I may fuck cute people ewww you must have aids. no man no job just a piece of shit. ha ha ha ha! And there's nothing wrong with being American what r u an arab ewwwwww! eat shit and die fucker.

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          • im not religious,( I have standards may fuck cute people what an asshole). and u r nothing no one will ever marry u your damaged goods. no Daddy Im guessing? that's why ur a whore? And Im not provoked either. ugh u must be a real bowwow. woof!

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        • u want a piece of me come git it? cunt

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      • Oh shut up Have you ever heard shut your maw cause your sound stupid D?S your full of shit looser. with no husband!

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  • Im not doing all of it for nothing....
    Hes very sweet, caring and always there for me and my daughter. Whenever I need anything. Hes a get father to is daughter (a fulltime dad) and to mine. He doesn't always speak of depravity and filth. My family loves him. Hes always polite and helpful. Always asking if I need anything goes to all my appts. Everyone that sees us together says wow hes sweet always with you kissing you and watching the kids. He doesn't go out "with the boys" any free time we spend with the kids. I didnt fall in love with him because he was an asshole. Not just that but I like the control. Hes let up on it he wasnt very trusting hadn't been in a serious relationship for 6 years. Ive always been strong bossy and independent in everyday life so with sex I enjoy a submissive role a strong man that takes what he wants not ask "ummmm can you suck it please" that's terrible. So the controlling part really doesn't bother me I enjoy it it keeps me inline and faithful. I let him br controlling he didn't want to be like that he said he didn't want to be that guy anymore but I told him I wanted it because I need had it. He trusts me now I've earned it. Im a good girl now because he deserves it. I just wanted to see if I could still be loved after having a 3some. We have a great relationship I just don't want to ruin it.

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    • your doing it cause you can't get a father for your spawn with aids. you should just kill youself ther'es enough trash around. and don't b tellthe people at this website im the problem your the problem don't get involved in my conversation get it crosseyed Mexican no father for your ugly baby.

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    • im not doing all of it for nothing he's very sweet...oh shut the fuck up loser no one cares about about your ugly ass baby. I enjoy sex with a strong man? eww you sound like a trans. man. your nasty I hope your baby can escape from u. it sounds like your gonna die of aids anyway! good.

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    • your not bossy your just no baby daddy and stupid. Your a piece of taco shit taco shit taco shit, no father for your crack baby no husband, you should just kill your self cause your a loser.

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    • You'll never b loved your too crosseyed and noonone loves tacos sorry you'll die alone ha ha!

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    • U don't even have a husband crosseyes. Damn u must be ugly. I enjuoy a submissive role, what an ass! I've earned it . You have to earn it you don't have a husband and I do ha ha. Eeeeeeeeew you have bastard baby with no dad, it figures instead of bothering me. you better go find you baby's dad. oh yeah he doesn't want u he just used u ha ha? Sell your baby your too tacoish to raise it

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    • (s)aint

      Aaah, understandable! I just didn't read that into your text at first. I do agree with you that the submissive role is the best.

      A thought could be to say that you'd love to be in a threesome after you guys gets married? It shouldn't be a difference.

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      • I do agree that your a stupid twat. your submissive cause your lesbo don't respect u dog.

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      • Get off my website beyotch

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      • Its funny what's going on right now since I've said yes and explained my cincerns. Hes been different in a good way. Our sex life has always been
        very on the kinky side and I've been okay with that honestly I'm the blame for that. Ive always preferred the kinkier side always wanted sweet and romantic but it makes me uncomfortable. Anyways I began the search received many responses but a week has pasted and he hasnt notified anyone. I thought it was weird I just assumed he'd be one it asap. So the rest of the week texts and phone calls were nice, sweet and normal. He usually gets angry and frustrated at work and nothing. Saw him over the weekend as usual we had sex but not all night and crazy as usual it was sweet and tender. He whispered beautiful things. Told me why and how he needed me so much. Normally through out the the day we sneak away fir quickies instead we just hung out cuddling him kissing my hands feet and face. Everywhere skin was visible. Had me go with him everywhere even to go downstairs and sit as he made tes. Wanted me near him everywhere. His mom keep asking was wrong with you no anger frustration your not all wound up tight. There was a peace and calm surrounding him. Finally he said he felt weird very calm and peaceful was happy that we were happy. Worried because he was hard all day needing sex. I also reminded him that he hadn't replied to anyone yet. He said he would get right to but again didn't. I told him that maybe he just realized how much he really did love me. That I really cared for him and would do anything for him maybe it was not the actual act but the fact I would. I was happy as was he....so I dont know

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        • He whispered beautiful things. ha ha ha. what a fucking jerk ur. He had me make tea what a dum'dum. ha ha. His mom kept asking is that your crosseyed bignose cheaplipstick whore and he said yeah it is.
          our sex has been on the kinky side. yeah he charge u money cause no one wants to fuck a crosseyed bean. with big long nose. I was as happy. you ain't happy beyotch. Because u have a aids baby, your eyes are two close together, u have no husband, and your mentally ill. if you want a piece of me taco.
          come to my town and get it. I fix your eyes so u can get a husband. ha ha ha! Your gonna get us banned from this site so shut it cunt. Got it. Fucker.

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          • Its not any of my concern if we get banned. My life doesnt revolve around insulting people. If you are getting banned its because you had to go cry and say I was antagonizing you. Im an adult so I could careless. So continue with your petty juvenile insults because I dont care. You nor do your words affect my life.

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        • (s)aint

          It is a special kind of peace once you share your innermost desires and ideas with your loved one and he/she accepts this.

          I was with my boyfriend for over four months before he got really drunk and confessed that he'd really,really really want to have threesomes with me. We had of course talked about this before but after that talk he got the courage to tell me that he really would like to be able to fuck girls with me.

          After that talk and after he understood that it was a desire of mine as well, but that we needed to take it slow both of us felt as if we grew even closer to one another so yeah I understand how he must feel now.

          Maybe he just needed that, to know that you'd be willing to do these things for him and now he can sit back and relax about it?

          Either way as long as you don't feel pressured you go ahead with this and don't let narrow minded people tell you otherwise.

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  • (s)aint

    Threesomes and such can be really fun and arousing, if you are into these sorts of things. You have tried it before under the influence of substances and didn't like it you shouldn't give into the pressure.

    He wants this out of you and judging by your description you have so far given him everything that he wants, what do you get in return from all this giving? :c

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    • you never had a threesome. u wish your too crosseyed y don't you take care of your bastard aids baby and not worry about your crooked nose. and crosseyed bean fuck~

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    • Suck my balls paint saint. threesomes can be such fun what a moron u sound like. grow up. fatso woof. U get nothing in return. I knew u were fat and ugly and stupid, saint u wish your a nasty smelly dirty dog.

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  • Wow not human thats interesting...

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    • DiamondGirl

      Wow I am banned from this site cause I can't shut my stupid mouth oh well. Maybe I"ll just jump off a cliff. LOL imao noob. ha ha!

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    • Butt sluts are out of this world. You did not know that?

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      • Nope wasnt aware

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        • Are you a turbo slut?

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          • If time and mood call for it. Im anything and everything I am asked of.

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            • Im anything and everything, yeah your a dog with a fatherless baby. and you ain't got no daddy. so do the world a favor and go back to your home. And you better never insult americans again trash!

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            • Your nothing you'll do anything to get a man. but u can't cause you have an aids baby to bad ha ha!

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            • I everything I am asked of, Ha ha what dumb bitch your just a piece of taco shit. Your notthin. And I have a Great Husband, And a sweet life. You have to b a whore. it figures dumb taco.

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            • I knew u were an ugly whore ha ha!

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            • Well that is hot.

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