Is it normal that my dad touches me?

Ok this I'd really disturbing and I really hate it and need lots of advice plz :( 
When I was 7 my dad would always hug me really tightly and touch my butt, I thought it was normal so I let him. Then one morning he was cooking breakfast and I came down stairs and he said come here give daddy a big hug so I ran over there and gave him a hug but as I remember he told me to touch his penis while he touched my butt. He told me that is how you give proper hugs and so I did. Tht night he came over to my bed and woke me up and said he was sad and needed a long hug! I was 7 so obviously I didn't kno about sex or anything I didn't know anything at all I was homeschooled and was an only child my mom works alot. So I put my hands onto his penis and touched it while he touched my butt. He started shaking a little bit and his penis got hard. I dint know what it was so I started laughing and saying what is that he would laugh and keep saying do u like that over an over while he shook harder. So I was pretty much giving him pleasure...then a couple days later he came into the bathroom when I was taking a shower and said tht wen I was born I was naked so it's ok tht every parent does it with their kids. So he got in the shower with me an. We started playing around like throwing water at each other and stuff the he turned me around so my back was facing him and he started putting his penis around my butt and started making noises I would think nothing off it and let him. He wud rub it all over my butt while the water leaked down itwas... Its really disturbing. A couple weeks later he took his penis out and told me to give him a massage and I was kinda scared but he took my hands and put it on his penis and started moving it in circles and say see it's not tht bad...tht night he was on the couch an he picked me up and put me on his penis. We pretty much had sex. Wen my mom got home I told her about our Fun adventures and she cried and screamed/I haven't seen my. Dad since, what do u think... :( now tht I'm older I relize how bad it was but I wil Never forget any of it.... :;(((

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Based on 1673 votes (471 yes)
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Comments ( 17 )
  • Angel_in_a_Glass_Dress

    What to do all depends on how old you are now.

    Each state is very specific about when the statue of limitations expires when it comes to child abuse / molestation.

    If you're still a minor then you can still press charges.
    Some states it will expire in your 18th year - other states however let you go 3 years past that.

    I'd recommend looking up your local laws and... pressing charges

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  • Avant-Garde

    That's very disturbing. I'm glad your mother put a stop to it and I'm glad you don't see him any more. Have you ever seen anyone about this?

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  • manii92

    =,(
    Omg!.. I'm glad u never saw him again that's some twisted shit.. He should be shot!!

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  • Legion

    Im not surprised he left, cause he knew that he'd be facing jail time is he didn't. (or death if that would have made her snap)

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  • Kutiekat

    That's really terrible for a Father to do to his daughter. The reaction you had to it was normal because you did not know better. So don't be ashamed of what you did.

    What he did to you was definitely wrong and he could be thrown in jail if you tried hard enough.

    Main point is, don't hate yourself for what he did to you because it was not your fault and there was really nothing you would have been able to do about it at the time even if you did know it was wrong.

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  • GroupChild

    Okay, my hand slipped whilw voting and i meant to click NO(and it wont let me take my comment back) and this is definitely not normal, your dad is a horrid man for doing that, so please dont count my vote for that :(

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  • legacy777

    hi my name is regina and i went through what you basically went through with your father.i was being touched by my dad until i moved out with my husband. it isnt normal at all and i now you feel sad your dad did that to you and you thought it was normal but it isnt. try getting therepy. just now that you were a little girl that didnt now that it was wrong.and he did.put in your eyes that jesus christ is your father and not him.because we now god well be the only one that is faithfull. try going to church i assure you they will find help for you and its free. god bless you and many prayers for you.

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  • belleverano

    Dam, who the fuck are those 29% saying it's normal.

    I hope you learn from that psychological disturbance, dear. I got the same thing from the man I first would look up to for my whole life. Wasn't as obvious as yours but I just ignored that it was wrong. Until these days I realized I should never ignored that.

    Be strong

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  • Mopxmms

    I clicked that it was normal by mistake am I am sorry about that as this is totally not normal at all.

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  • anonynomous

    what the fuck is wrong with the 30% of the people who said this is fucking normal so please tell me what the fuck is wrong with you do u molester ur younger children like that because my god u have serious problkems

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  • chuy

    wrong in do many ways you eete molested and raped it wasn't your fault font carry that load around

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  • kimsleyforever.sb

    so sad that is sexual harrasment bye your parent ewww

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  • Unknown10

    How sad :(

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  • shuggy-chan

    =( nooo

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  • AlaHuAhkbar

    you fucking troll, if not a troll to damn bad

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    • coolio75650932

      um i think shes being true not trollin

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      • coolio75650932

        lol now im trolling i skipped half of it so yeah just read the other half lololololololol

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