Is it normal that my ex is in the church and thinks about me sexually?

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My ex and i use to have sex and we stopped. A year later she joined a church and broke up with me. Its been a year and we have been trying to date. But her reason for not wanting to date me is because she think about our sex and wants it. But she knows just thinking of it is a sin. So she will try to text or call me and stop after a few day. Is it normal. Also is there anything i can do to make her not want me sexually and still be attracted to me. (Please help. And please dont try to be funny about it)

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  • Avant-Garde
    10 years ago

    A church is not going to be able to stop the powerful urgings of sexuality.

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  • Avant-Garde
    10 years ago

    I don't think that there's anyway to make her not want you sexually anymore and still be attracted to you. Just tell her that you have no interest in pursuing a sexual relationship with her.

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  • RoseIsabella
    10 years ago

    What church did she join?

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    • rastax336
      10 years ago

      Pentecostal... I was pentecostal when i was growing up. Once i moved out my parents house i swore to never go back to that crap. Look at me now. Doing it for some girl.

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      • RoseIsabella
        10 years ago

        My first ex-husband was raised Pentecostal. He was in many ways quite the repressed young man. I studied ballet for nine years as a child and can't understand or sympathize with a religion that thinks dancing is sinful. Speaking as a moderate to liberal Roman Catholic with some Pentecostal cousins that stuff has kinda always spooked me. When it comes to Protestantism I love the Episcopal and Anglican churches although those churches are I'm sure in the eyes of many just Catholicism without the Pope.

        Maybe you could get her to checkout the United Methodist church? I'm a bit biased against fundamentalism as a Roman Catholic from the Bible belt who has had to face ignorance and and bigotry. I don't think that thinking about sex is a sin. People think about all sorts of things. Sin, in my perhaps not so humble opinion, is about actions more than thoughts.

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  • richardbturgid
    10 years ago

    Sounds like a CULT not a CHURCH!

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