Is it normal that my friend does these things?

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My best friend skipped all three of his classes today. I think this is because he visited with other friends last night and never returned. I asked him yesterday if he would be at college today and he said he would. Why would he skip his classes to do this? He wouldn't do this for me, but he'll do it for his other friend! I consider him my best friend, but now I'm not sure if he considers me his. If he doesn't i might as well kill myself because he's the only friend for me. Is what he did normal? Shouldn't he give a damn about his college? He didn't get any scholarships so his parents are basically paying for him to do shit like this! He was so "turnt" about being with his friend as it said on snapchat last night around 2am. Why doesn't he feel this good when he is with me? Am i doing something wrong? Is he acting normal or being rude and inconsiderate to me, his parents, and his professors? I'm so pissed and distraught about this.

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58% Normal
Based on 26 votes (15 yes)
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  • Ellenna
    7 years ago

    Is this person your friend or your possession? Don't you enjoy activities other than with him? If not, you're in trouble: it's a very bad idea to be so dependent on one person, whether it's a friend or a lover.

    You are seriously over-reacting and need to expand you life into more activities and friendships: otherwise you're setting yourself up for a life of pain

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  • Dreamsao
    7 years ago

    You posted the same thing yesterday and I still think you should resolve your unrequited homosexual feelings for your friend and move on.

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    • shoka2322
      7 years ago

      This was my first post. I posted again because this post was still in moderation at the time, and i didn't wish to wait any longer.

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      • Dreamsao
        7 years ago

        No. It wasn't. Stop lying. I remember your whole story word for word. And the first time you posted it as "Is my friend normal?"

        I hate when people lie to me then keep denying their lies like I'm the one lying.

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        • shoka2322
          7 years ago

          I copied and pasted from the one that was "still in moderation". I can't wait my whole life for moderators to get around to me! I never said you were lying. This post was just moderated today, over 24 hours after i had to try again.I wouldn't post it twice if i thought the other one had gone through, no matter how disappointed i was in my friend. I hat to wait 48 hours for moderation! How ridiculous!

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          • Dreamsao
            7 years ago

            Well I don't have gold and I saw it so it was moderated.

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  • McBean
    7 years ago

    Your friend answers only to himself, and he is a loser. You answer only to yourself, and your choice to take action on a successful future belongs only to you.

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    • Ellenna
      7 years ago

      How loser?

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      • Dreamsao
        7 years ago

        Funny how he's a loser but I found like 3 of your fake accounts. I don't think you have a single account where you're yourself. Probably because you don't want anyone to know what a "loser" you really are.

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  • Murun
    7 years ago

    Friendship isn't a competition! Lighten up!

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  • mysistersshadow
    7 years ago

    Over reaction calm down.

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