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The reason I asked is because I never really felt that much of love. I was wondering if it was normal or very much normal if she tells me that she loves me.
I’ve found the same thing with my ex boyfriends, some of them told me they loved me when I didn’t really feel the same. It was weird because I didn’t really know men had emotions until I met my first bf (stupid, I know) but I always just thought being over emotional and pathetic was a female trait.
I'd rather be alone than be with someone who doesn't love me, or be with someone I don't love.
Well, I have my cat, and Jesus. My crazy family lives next door to me, and I keep in touch with a couple of my home girls from back in Vegas. I do Zoom Bible study with a sweet Catholic girl who used to want to be a nun, and I talk about books on codependency, and narcissism with a sassy, pagan chick who used to work as a mime before the Covid 19 struck.
I'm alone in that I'm single, but I'm not entirely alone. Still it's better to be single than with some asshole that makes me wish I was alone. I don't have the energy to hatch another escape plan.
Love is built. Part of building truely long lasting love is to express it.
May I suggest that you get the book: The 5 Love Languages and read it. In fact, get 2 copies. Your GF will need her own copy.
I believe that will explain things far better than I can ever do; and allow you to build a real loving relationship with the right lady for you. It will also allow your GF to do the same. It would really be great if your each other's real long term match for that.
I wish you the best with this,