Is it normal that my uncle has been thinking about making love to me?

Today my uncle who is also the father figure in my life told me out of the blue that he had been thinking about making love to me of late. He is much older than me (I am in my 20s) and his emotional state has been a little wacky the past couple of years.... I just was curious if it was normal for an older man to think about such things because of stress and loneliness and getting older.

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Comments ( 54 )
  • flipflapflop

    Thats disgusting... get out while you can..

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  • pogos

    Cut his dick off.

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  • Get out while you can and tell someone what he's told you. It's not normal and don't let him.

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    • Noahpinion

      She’s not a kid, it’s not like she’d be reporting him or something. Just walk away

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  • OliveOil

    My uncle actually asked me to be his girlfriend last night. He even asked why when I refused. What the f*** kind of world do we live in? I hope you're coping with it better than I am. Be safe.

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  • i fucked my uncle i fell inlove with him and he broke it off all of a suden... guess he just wanted sex

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    • down80513

      Same thing happened to me he just wanted some young girl ass i guess

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  • No that is not normal! And the very fact that you even question that tells me you maybe thinking about it yourself. Eeeeeww.

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  • danblk

    Its normal to want sex with your niece but its only a fantasy

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  • Gryonybaffney

    Thats just sick

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  • Why does everyone assume he's going to rape her? He's obviously confused about the whole thing, and he even told her. I think she would know if it was a dangerous situation. Anyway OP, I'm not sure how abnormal that is since I'm still a teenager but i dont think it makes him a bad person automatically

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  • 111riley

    He took you in and raised you, you or him. Give it to him

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    • FinDuMonde

      I agree with this^^

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      • It is natural

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    • Natural

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  • dutchy

    get a gun

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  • Juniper

    is he a blood relative? if so EWWWW. and does he have alzheimers?

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  • dom180

    It certainly isn't normal for him to tell you about it. I really would want to get some help for him :/

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  • Dreamboat

    Hes your blood...of course its not normal and you still doubt wether you should give your hyena to him??You and him both sound gross

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  • xogirlygirlxo

    you need to tell someone straight away, its disgusting and incest for him to even think of these things. No matter how lonely he is, there is no need to resort to sleeping with your own neice, i had been abused for a number of years by an uncle and i told the police about it, now hes locked up, so please for your own safety tell someone and make sure your never alone with him, i just dont want you to have to go thru the same things i had to x

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  • Solophonic

    He just needs to release his stress.

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    • AmvEditor

      He better release in the toilet.

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  • Jessica0008

    if you are not blood related then go for it.
    I was adopted by a guy. and he left to another country to work. i live with my uncle and everytime i will go and sleep with my step uncle and make love with him

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  • scapetown.VA

    thats messed up

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  • jussayin

    very not normal...like please, report to the police so he doesn't rape you. I'm serious, have you read these stories above??

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  • Sheenabeary

    You say your uncles emotional state has been off and unusual, I think you should tell him that if he doesn't go to a physiatrist and seek help that you are going to either tell someone what he said or cut contact with him

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  • Idodolphins

    Fk him give the man wat he wants before he dies

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    • It should make him happy

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  • FinDuMonde

    I really don't see anything all that abnormal about it. And if you are ok with it, then I think you should go for it. It might be something you really like!

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  • BlueAlice

    Normal for him to think about... but shouldn't he consider a prostitute/masturbation first?

    If he tries it on with you and you're not interested - REALLY doesn't seem like it from the post to me - get the hell away from him and treat him like any other rapist should he get touchy-feely with you in any way whatsoever.

    If, however, you are interested and consensting, then I see no harm.

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  • milkymum

    The best thing to do is chat with him and find out what he wnats becuase you can just start out by letting him see you toppless and give a hand job.

    I'm sure like most men he would be more than happy with that.

    But if you want more then go for it nothing wrong with you laying on your back.

    I have for loads of guys (mum of 6)

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  • It's totally normal. My niece has been flirting with me as long as I've known her. She's 16 now and still teases me. She totally gets me off and I love it. I just accepted it long ago and let her do what she wants.

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    • Totally normal - she is sensual girl - let her enjoy

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  • kayybear

    Thats not normal. thats gross. Be careful, this could turn into rape. Tell someone .

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  • ccjigsaw

    Why are their so many creeps 1 upping the uncles? *Barf* Honestly honey, don't try being all understanding about this. He needs to control himself. Your FAMILY, and he's like a father to you. Make this clear to him so he snaps out of it. He said something that should have been left unsaid

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  • I would be worried that he would rape you I would take this as a threat tell someone

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  • Kiwi114

    If u like him that way go for it but if not and he does anything to u tell the police change fone and ignore him

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  • 2gra2

    Actually it is. One high school partner got pregnant at 17, nobody's suspect who was the father, after that we found she was in a relationship with her uncle since she was 15, they are still together.

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  • 2gra2

    Anyone can feel desire for anybody.
    So if your'r an atractive young woman it's very normal.

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  • Totaly natural 🤗

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  • FinDuMonde

    It depends on how YOU feel about it. If you don't have a problem with it and you aren't underage, then it shouldn't be an issue. Yeah, maybe it is a bit gross for some people. But since you are an adult, it all depends on how consenting you wish to be. If you don't have a problem with it, then GO FOR IT!

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  • delling

    It's even weirder than the fact that you refer to it as "making love" without quotation marks.

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  • RedCurlsAre

    http://isitnormal.com/story/is-it-normal-that-my-gf-is-really-close-with-her-uncle-95296/

    I'm starting to think these two are related stuff

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  • SlutLover636

    He's a freak, Beat Feet.

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  • Idon'tunderstandme

    Human sexuality, in all forms, is normal. We are only expressing what we feel. In general all of those feelings are normal,

    BUT, i said, BUT

    Its what you do about them that differs. Incest, it seems horrible to most of us. If acted upon, its unlawful. If he doesn't act on it, then can we really hunt the man down?
    If your uncle has these feelings, then those are normal in the realm of human sexuality. If he acts on them, that is wrong.

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  • Lardzor

    I think being lonely and getting older can increase someones desire to find a partner. It's normal for an older man to be attracted to a younger woman. It's not normal to bring it up with you considering how taboo the subject of incest is in our culture.
    If you're not blood related (if he's related by marriage only or you're adopted or something) then it's not incest, and I don't think it's morally wrong, unless either of you are cheating on a spouse.
    You're a big girl, the fact that he's a father figure shouldn't be as much a concern as it might be if he were an authority figure.

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  • Plumpy

    I agree with Dahlia

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  • It's not of the norm, not at all, but you have to ask yourself if you'd want to before you judge him... Help find him a woman closer to his age or something...

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  • eggsandbacon

    uu need to get outta there forreal...my uncle raped my cousin..tht was years ago my cousin caught aids and now is gay becuz of that...this is a sick world we live in

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    • how do u know he is gay cuz of the rape?... y would being raped make u gay if its a guy u were raped by?... i been raped 2times and still am inlove with my fiance wich is a man... i know not all men r rapests!

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      • jussayin

        the exp. can be so traumatic for some people that they either block it out of their minds or have gender confusion/sexual orientation issues

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        • true

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          • StevenC

            People on this website are so thick.

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