Is it normal that my wife think underage sex is normal ?

Not ok, that’s pedophilla and rape.

It sounds like she was brought up around young girls who were sexually abused or raped and tried desperately to normalise it. I wouldn’t even rule out that she was raped herself at that age and pretending it’s ok is how she deals with it.

It's more old world thinking, like back from a time when being a certain age like 18 wasn't as important as being able to bear children

I really wouldn't know how being Muslim could influence that idea though

Down vote all you want, that doesn't change the societal standards from only a few hundred years ago and beyond

We're talking about a group of people that refuse to drink alcohol or certain kinds of meat, but will gladly smoke their lungs into ash and cheat you out of your money so I don't think logic really applies mate.

Paedophilia is sick, twisted and perverse. I don't care what religion you belong to, if you think it's ok to groom or violate an innocent child and make them your sexual "plaything" then you should be buried alive underneath a prison.

The ancient standard for sexual activity was physical sexual maturity (or at least fairly well progressed); and that is essentially world-wide.

Then, certain groups considered that the young lady in question had to know enough to agree to participate; and other groups did not have that standard (young ladies were married to men they had no interest in).

The ancient religious texts behind Judaism, Christina, and Muslims have no age limit - and allow not just male polygamy but also men having young ladies as sex partners both before and after marriage with their wife (wives).

So her personal belief is all in line with that. As long as a young lady was sexually developed enough - and willing to have sex (or experiment) with you that she has no objection if you and the young lady does so.

I would also expect that your wife would expect that you would care for her and likely expect that it be a long term sexual and care relationship (not bed-hopping). I also suspect that your wife would not be concerned about any children that resulted (and even multiple children).

That would all be totally consistent. She might even arrange for you to sleep with, and develop a relationship with, a lady that she notices you are "eyeing" if she thinks the lady would be a good match for you.

Now what are the laws where you live may say different. But, I believe there are still countries in the world that allow all of that. There are certainly countries that allow multiple wives and other routine sex partners while married within the marriage per the old standards.

You might wish to explore with your wife her views on other partners (and even potentially other wives); resulting children, etc. That may provide you with options in your marriage that you did not know you had. I'm not saying that you have to use those options. On the other hand, someday you may find you need those options.

I hope that helps,

Peace.

And people wonder why traditonal islam is hated by most circles. I'll take the talk of eternal fire with Christian fundamentalists vs the barbaric world of islam.

It's not really normal, but her point of view is acsepted in many places. I would recommend you talk to her about the consept.

No, your wife's opinions on underaged sex are not normal, but she was raised in an ignorant, and deeply misogynistic culture.

I agree with her. I say, anyone who's married can have sex with their partner, and people of any age can marry. However, marriage is a big decision, so people and their prospective partners of all ages should think very hard before doing it.

No it's not normal, but obviously this is a cultural difference. She's been raised with those beliefs and doesn't know any better. A 12 year old can't make a logical decision about sex, this is why 12 year olds are not adults. They don't know what's best for them, they're just kids and will do things without thinking much about consequences.

Yes it's all ok.

It’s normal, young teens want sex and are physically ready for it. Sex isn’t some big thing that emotionally traumatises you, it’s just sex and you’re still exactly the same after.

I am a muslim girl and it use to be normal for girls to know about sex as young as 10 and maybe get married once they get there period, but of course it doesnt happen now and I myself learned about sex once I was around 10 so she probably grew up in a community were if you were ever raped you could speak out and they would probably send the man to jail or just a very safe community.

Upbringing and religion shouldn’t matter, pedophilia is never normal.

No that is really messed up and I absolutely DO NOT think that that is normal for her to think that.

The age of consent is different across the world we all know what the laws dictate wether they right or wrong who knows.
But from her point of view if I had sexual A relationship With a 12 year old now to her she wouldn’t mind , she thinks it would be normal as Long as it was consensual.
To me this is not okay , but I’m trying to understand her thought process .
Do I accept that she she thinks this or do I not.
She thinks that people should stick to similar age range but if this does happen she thinks it’s okay .

The first age of consent in England was 12!