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A girl that i went to school with for 3 years. Has never talked to anyone and always alone? I tried talking to her but she ignored me. Shes always silent. Why is she like this?
Some people are quiet and very reserved. It is normal and not good to bug them. Let it be!
It could be a lot of things. 1. She might be deaf. 2. She could have mutism. 3. She might have experienced something traumatic or been abused. 4. She doesn't want to be bother. 5. She can't stand being around people. Etc. If its one and two, it seems to me her parents would have taken her to ENT or Neurologist, but they probably already have. Try writing on a piece of paper as a form of communication.
Selective mutism? Extreme social anxiety? Avoidant personality disorder? Other?
She has mutism. Try writing something down on a piece of paper and see if she responds back by writing. She might be happy to make a friend. A good way to get to know someone with mutism is online so give her your online contact info.
Maybe she doesn't want to be bothered?
Or, if you guys know each other, it could be possible that she likes you and she's too shy to talk to you. Sometimes people are so shy around the people they like that they might come off as cold and bitchy....
Or she just doesn't feel like having any friends, cause she'd like to be alone.