Is it normal that when i finger myself i don't find pleasure?

You're doing it wrong, love.

As a woman myself, I do not get pleasure from fingering myself. It just does not do it for me. For pleasure I have to use a toy, someone elses fingers or actually have sex. Fingering yourself isn't for everyone.

It is normal.I am masturbating and I don't like lingering by myself at all.It's not if you are doing it right or wrong.
I just find more pleasure at the clit.

The same happens to me, ive tried rubbing my clit a million different ways and fingering but nuthin helps or makes me cum. I think i need sex.

yeah my ex girlfriend, god rest her soul. Never liked masturbation she preferred me for pleasure. God I miss her.

Your tiny woman fingers are too weak, you need to find lumberjack or a dock worker to rough house your vagina with their stumpy digits

I feel the same way just thinking about doing it. I don't come close to the act. =/

My boyfriend can do it perfectly.. C;

Try clitorus stimulation. It works like a charm for me, and it's so much easier (and more sanitary) than fingering.

make sure it's the right hole!

or buy a sybian.

Its suppose to feel naughty!

If you don't like it, why do you do it? Just a reason to wash your hands?

‘Fingering Yourself’…
A slang term for masturbating female genitalia by inserting foreign matter into the muscular part of the vaginal tract in an attempt to procure internal penetration.
Masturbation is something both men and women participate in. The circumstances that lead to and the reasons behind why some people partake in self-induced sexual pleasure are vast and differing, they include the obvious lack of a sexual partner, to mental, emotional and physical complications, intimacy or relationship issues, sex and porn addictions, reporting’s of reaching a higher climax to claims of stress and pain relief.
Media constantly promotes and subtly normalises male masturbation, porn and the social construction of sexual attractiveness. The false ideas are integrated into all aspects of life and become a social norm reinforced until the majority of society have subconsciously learned that male masturbation is something everyone does, porn is the guide to a woman’s idea of sexual pleasure and the unrealistic portrayal of the female body (and certain male parts) become the thing we all aspire to.
A consequence of women being regularly depicted using a dildo when masturbating; the vagina is mistakenly thought to be the centre of female pleasure. Because of this some men and women have come to believe that vaginal penetration through use of objects and fingers is the way to arouse a woman. Many women are actually of the opinion that it does not feel good to finger inside the vaginal tract. With an overwhelming 80% of females saying they do not find any pleasure in fingering themselves and that preference is given to stimulation of the clitoris which leads to a more likely orgasm and more frequently.
Some women state they hear of people saying it is great and then [once tried themselves]are left highly disappointed, sometimes even totally grossed out and quite often confused. In summary majority of women find it pointless and most would prefer to be with an actual person and using the designated body part for its designated purpose, rather than doing things for themselves.
Often women are not comfortable admitting those sex related myths, like fingering, out of fear that there is something wrong with them? The media rarely promotes what women actually really enjoy in the bedroom, it is almost taboo. Very little is spoken of female sexual preferences, enjoyment and experiences. No wonder such a large number of women do not succeed at orgasm and the woman’s libido is thought to be somewhat lower than men’s.
Fingering, anal sex, choking and gaging during oral sex, bodily excretions on your face or being consumed and the bizarre, uncomfortable, unflattering sex positions and painful nipple twisting torture will more often than not form the perfect scenes for a horror film than one of sexual pleasure and intimacy.
An overwhelming percentage of women agree that in order for them to achieve any sexual pleasure it must be accompanied with an emotional connection to their sexual partner. Whether it be emotional, chemistry, trust and comfort etc. it is commonly agreed that sex is more enjoyable when the two people have a connection.

This is actually common among most women. Women usually tend to need to feel an emotional connection alongside sexual pleasure else it can seem pointless. It is one of the main reasons why women don't masturbate as often as men do.

You can also try clitoral stimulation which will probably yield more success.

Get aroused then work your Clit or G-spot, imagination helps but then again so do vibrators :)

Personally I don't finger myself, when someone else fingers me I like it but not when I do it for myself so I think that's normal. Try rubbing your nipples and clit maybe...works for me :p

how old are you? do you have a large family?

Can i do something for u baby, i will put all my creamy load in ur tongue, and u'll enjoy its taste, even when you will feel my fingers and mouth right inside ur pussy! (Just kidding baby!)

Its normal if it dosent happen to u, different ppl have different type of orgasms, u can see mine above.....

A lot of girls have difficulty experiencing pleasure, and just as many find it next to impossible to orgasm during sex. Its perfectly normal but its frustrating as well.
There are lots of reasons this happens, and all of us are different so its not easy to figure out why. It could be a lack of experience? Or maybe your partner isnt helping much? Maybe try a toy? They can help. Or like others said, get a guy to do it for you? That works for me!

Most women who squirt are merely releasing urine. I've caught it in a glass and tasted it...with several squirters. Jim

I never could give myself an orgasm until recently. I was just doing it the wrong way. For me just sticking a finger in doesn't do it. Fingering myself in cowgirl position straddling a pillow while rubbing my clit works the best for me.

Oh also! When your down there you'll start feeling a lil tired (idk if that's the word??) but keep going!! Dnt give up!! Go go go n then it'll be like BOOM!!!! Toe curling deliciousness(;

I used to have the same problem): I'd have phone sex n I couldn't finish but then I realized I had to keep going harder n harder n faster n omg!! The first time I came I squirted in my hand it felt soooo good. If you need inspiration watch a lil porn or think of something super sexy. If your hand isn't doing it buy a mini bullet n press it against your clit n it'll start tingling soo good(: I hope you cum hehe not to be a creep(;

When I was a teenager I totally thought that was masturbating and was convinced I didnt have a clitoris because I felt nothing. Its good when someone else does it but for self pleasure you gotta turn yourself on mentally and rub away...

Try clitoris stimulation. Slowly, think about a guy f**king with you and relax!

Try getting fingered by someone else. It's great.

Try humping a pillow or something. I'm a guy and I can't give mself a hand job. Not everyone has the same masturbation techniques.

I don't get anything out of it either. Try using a vibrator while doin it though, it makes it so much better.

totally normal. a human organ designed for that job feels soooo much better. yum.

same with me

It's really just down to your own preferences
I don't find any pleasure in it myself
Try just stimulating your clitoris

If you have a guy do it, it should feel better. You might have loosened yourself out to. I would recommend using 2 fingers.

I am the poster of this

The problem is you're fingers aren't big enough. You need to try just one finger but make sure it is between 6 and 8 inches in length and about 1 1/2 to 2 inches in girth. That should get the results you're yearning for.

You may not be in the right spot. I don't usually finger myself because I can't get the same results as if someone else was doing it. Focus on your clitoris either with vibrators or your own hands.

I guess it just doesn't work for everyone. Or you're not doing right.

Perhaps, you're doing it wrong?

I'm sure I can pleasure you and make you cum with my tounge :p x