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Ok I go out a decent amount of times during the week. About 5 times a week on a 7 day average with my friends. And i don't get back till after midnight but I always feel like a loser if i don't go out every night especially Saturday nights. I'm in College and I feel like I should be out more or doing more..is it normal to feel like this?
I also am out very often. Im NEVER in my house all day, I cant handle not socializing. But I cant figure out why. I want to get use to staying home but I cant find a good enough reason for me not to be hanging out with my friends. Everyday I wake up and try to figure out what my plans are for the day. (texting/call friends to see who wants to hangout) If I don't leave, I start to feel very anxious and start to have a very minor anxiety attack. I want to just wake up and just do stuff around the house just like I use to like when I was in elementary.
m sick of my house. i do the same. n want to be out all the tym.. so that i can't see my parents' face. i hate them. but then i wish i could take my bed with me when i go out
Just stick to going out weekends. That's when most people at my university go out. And sometimes thursdays because there are few classes on friday. I used to feel like that in first year, it's the fear youre going to miss out on something. You won't miss out on anything involving you if you're not there, so why does it matter right?
Me2 I just hate to be alone and home so I go out everytime even when i get home from school I call my friends just to do something.
I think 5/7 days is a bit excessive. I think Friday/Saturday nights are normal and then pick 1 day during the week. You need time for self reflection and maybe a 1-on-1 dinner with a date or close friends. You need to ensure you're staying well balanced and not just chasing the next best high. Balance it out. Get another hobby to keep yourself busy and learn more about yourself and enrich your life.