Is it normal to be a kid again mentally?

This isn't really that serious a thread, I'm just seeing of others feel the same way.

I was a stroppy, moody, sour-faced teenager who barely even used the words play or fun. I was super serious, easily agitated, flinched a lot and cried a lot too. I listened to bad metal music and didn't have many friends. I was immature in a way but not in the way I'm going to talk about here.

After that when I reached adulthood I sort of went through a period of recovery and now, sometimes I feel like I'm back to being a little kid again. I like to play, I like to pretend, I like to run around for the sake of running around. I like to pick up insects or spiders and hold them. I like to climb trees. I like to get the window seat. I stare at everyday things around me as if I'd never seen them before and get the same kind of awe out of it. I play with my kid siblings as if I were their age. I like to tell it how I see it. I like to basically do things I used to find fun when I was about 6 or 7.

I seem to have gone backwards with some things too, though. Like I don't understand certain things adults should understand and I'm not really all that sure if I ever did understand them at some point and just forgot or if I never learned them in the first place. Things like picking up people's subtle cues or saying things that seem innocent to me but actually mean something different. It's hard to explain actually because I have a hard time understanding these things. It can be a hindrance but I feel when I'm being open and honest as possible I can't fault myself. Just learn and move on.

Overall I feel a lot happier than I did 10 years ago, a lot more carefree. I still feel like an adult (and have adult relationships) but like a small part of me has recessed back to childhood and is learning certain things from scratch all over again (in a good way) from a new, fresh perspective. Anyone else feel this way?

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  • dirtybirdy

    Except for the first paragraph and part of the third, that sounds a lot like me. I love climbing trees and going on swings and slides and running around like a doofus and all that stuff. Why the heck not while I still can. And damn it I want a tree house!!

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    • Matter_and_Energy

      Yeah, why not? I guess a lot of people are worried about their image, I could understand that. But as you implied you only can for so long, best make the most of it.

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      • dirtybirdy

        I love it when women 10+ years older than me, younger ones too, look at me like im totally mental because I'm all over the playground with a bunch of kids. They're just jelly cus I be jammin. Youth preserved!

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        • shuggy-chan

          I'm right there with u missy. Ur as old as u feel damnit

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  • Short4Words

    This is a good thing. I use to be a bitter cunt, till I learned to stop and smell the roses. I'm abbreviating a huge part of my life but yea, feels like almost being human again. Or being reborn in a way. I now cherish my child-like sensibility, there's nothing wrong with it, children are naturally intelligent, thoughtful, caring people, that are turned jaded, stupid, and ignorant, to be rather blunt. The whole social cue thing takes some time. We've spent a lot of our lives being anti-social so learning the proper way is going to be hard, don't think you are behind or anything though, we're all growing as people.

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    • Matter_and_Energy

      It's interesting to hear your perspective. I do think a lot of kids turn jaded. The school system and bad parenting sets them up for it sadly. Even just not being in high school any more was a healing process in itself.

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  • RoseIsabella

    I can relate. I love kid stuff.

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  • Terence_the_viking

    I never wanted to grow up.

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  • Nephew7

    Be both, fun and serious when you need to be, remember you dont always have to choose blue and red,black and white.

    How about purple and grey, experience the full spectrum, yolo

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    • Matter_and_Energy

      This isn't a black and white situation like you think it is. :)

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      • Nephew7

        Metaphors

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        • Matter_and_Energy

          I know.

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  • Aub

    I've always had a problem not with immaturity but with maturity and it has made my life very dull. I've never experienced this but I wish that I had.

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  • RomeoDeMontague

    It just means you resolved your personal issues and are now a happy adult. So yeah its a good thing! Long as you are not doing something stupid a child would and behave like a responsible adult. I also think little kids like it when you play at there level. Also the not reading the cues is a issue for a lot of people. Some people do not understand that and if you are very literal you probobly mean everything you say as JUST THAT.

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  • braintrip

    duhh

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  • "I was super serious, easily agitated, flinched a lot and cried a lot too"

    The former two being contrary to the latter two.

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    • Matter_and_Energy

      How are they contrary?

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