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I know a lot of guys need sex to feel right. But I feel like I am addicted to sex. I've heard it should be special and an emotional thing, but I have one night stands all the time to fulfill my needs. I also have slept with a lot of my guy friends, and we remain friends with benefits. I have sex almost every day. Is it normal to NEED it?
I clicked on normal but from my own experience I think most girls go through a nympho stage but not many want sex all the time. I was a really early developer and i was getting urges all the time from when i was 11-12 without knowing what the fook was going on with my body. I was diagnosed with HSD (Hyper Sexuality Disorder) when I was 14 and its always been a massive part of my life and all the shit that goes with it. I been offered hormonal treatment but it wont have much affect on me until I finish puberty but it might be something u wanna ask about if your urges are really bad. Hope this helps! Ax
No one really "needs" sex but... yes it's normal for women to desire sex without emotional content.
(that's why many of us masturbate) =)
However I would personally recommend being careful with the one-night-stands. Your orgasm may last a few minutes if you're lucky but... the consequences can last your entire lifetime.
And I don't just mean "what if your birth control fails and you get knocked up", although that is always a possibility. I mean... Do you know your partners' sexual history? If they're clean?
Cos remember - condoms don't completely protect you from STDs.
And if you're very unlucky that list of consequences also includes cancer. Yep. The most popular STD is HPV (genital warts) and one of the strains is cancerous.
So be careful whom you have your playtime with.
i like your answers!
But seriously: Ya, i need sexual stuff too. Usually at least once or twice a day(including masturbation), if i "hold back" for a while(2+ days), i get all nervous and easily irritated, and long for a "mental release". It's normal if you have a high libido, and heck, WHY should only the guys get something out of it? You use them as much as they use you...just make sure you're "safe".
And, on an aside: Yeah, having actual sex or mutual masturbation is chemically different from simple solo acts...so while masturbation "covers" the needs, i see how you prefer the real deal and try to get that in a regular way.
I know what you mean, I have an extremely high libido too. If my boyfriends not there to have sex with I go DIY. I require sex at least once a day (not that my BF complains!) if not sex then some kind of sexual activity. I actually spoke to my doctor about it and he told me it was normal to have a high sex drive but that I should learnt to control it more. The same goes for you, if you need sex and you don't have any guys; DIY! If this doesn't fulfil you get some sex toys or use objects around the house, just don't take the chance of ruining friendships for your sexual needs! :)
Oh gee, ever heard of masturbation? God stupid sluts like you who can't even control their basic needs annoy me.