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Is it normal to be afraid I will lose my bf of just about two years to his new best friend that is a female and she is always here with us for the last 6 months and she even sleep in bed with us
Tealighs is right somehow, but if she sleeps in the same bed then he definitely flirts with her and enjoys her sexually so he's already cheating on you. It's up to you if you're ok with that or not, but this sign is clear that he wants her as well.
I dont know mate (David). You seem to be jumping into conclusions.
Heres my advice.
Look at what happens the next few days, if you start to get even more worried because the situation is getting worse, then what you can do would depend.
you should talk to him, sit down and talk about it. The worse thing to do in a relationship is to NOT communicate. Hell if that girl is way too clingy to your guy (guessing bf ment boyfriend not best friend) then you can even scream at him and get mad, ask why shes sleeping in bed atleast and say that you dont feel comfortable of the actions between them two.
Communicate please.
It's normal.
The only advice I can give is to stay calm, observant, and understand that if he does cheat or leave, you deserve better.