Is it normal to be afraid of losing virginity

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because I'm extremely anxious that the chick will be unsatisfied because I don't have any experience and I can't tell her I'm a virgin.

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Based on 95 votes (82 yes)
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  • Tancho
    12 years ago

    C'mon dappled, spill the beans on what you did?!

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    • dappled
      12 years ago

      I almost did, but no-one on IIN would ever look at me the same way again and I'm not yet ready to be reviled.

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  • moomus
    12 years ago

    Cmon dappled!!!!

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    • dappled
      12 years ago

      Nooooooooooooo! Maybe one day I'll admit it. But not today.

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  • rawr123451
    12 years ago

    Dappled what did u do!? xD

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  • TyLee
    12 years ago

    Tell her!!!! She will be so happy!!!! I'm not even kidding you have nothing to worry about.

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  • morbidkreation
    12 years ago

    That is very normal and no one is perfect their first time. Be open with her and I'm sure she will understand and maybe even enjoy that you are a virgin.

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  • dappled
    12 years ago

    Your first time can't be any worse than mine, and I got past it. I did something so hideously embarrassing that it makes gross out comedies look like they lack imagination.

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    • Shackleford96
      12 years ago

      What is it that you did?

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      • dappled
        12 years ago

        No way! It's horrifically bad and I can't believe anyone would do this, let alone me. :P

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        • [Old Memory]
          12 years ago

          I've known several people that brought their mother with them to lose their virginity. Stop feeling bad about it.

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          • dappled
            12 years ago

            It's worse.

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        • Shackleford96
          12 years ago

          Lol, ok. Sorry for asking...

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  • [Old Memory]
    12 years ago

    You should have sex with a girl who's also a virgin.

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    • [Old Memory]
      12 years ago

      Great...so everybody can have a bad time.

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  • randomjelly
    12 years ago

    Tell her. Otherwise she will just think you suck. Being a virgin gives you a free pass at being lousy.

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  • Who_Fan4Life
    12 years ago

    You know that the penis goes in the...right???

    RIGHT???

    A LITTLE HELP HERE!

    GOT IT?

    Ok good.

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  • Cobrakitnu
    12 years ago

    I know tons of girls who would love to have sex with a virgin, including me.

    But if you're that worried, don't tell her you've never had sex before. Just act like you know what you're doing (which you will).

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  • [Old Memory]
    12 years ago

    It's normal to be afraid because you do want to satisfy her but you have to be honest with her so she isn't expecting you to know everything. She should be able to understand.

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