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i vant help being afraid of angry people, even angry kindergardners! my friend always say common, dont be such a coward! but when someone angy im all panicing!
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And I'm the same way. Like if someone isn't talking to me I worry that I said something that crossed some sort of line. That's usually not the case, I just tend to worry.
im a very down to earth kind of person but i hate it when i do something and people get angry i beat my self about it and try as hard as i can to fix the situation!its normal!
I do this too. This one of the many reasons I don't fully express my views, because I'm always scared of others reactions. I'm scared that they will get angry at me. Especially, outside of the net, I'll just keep to myself and barely utter a word. I usually won't comment on something unless someone asks me or if it's something that I'm strongly against.
It is absoloutely normal to want to make a good impression on others and this is so normal to take this so seriously that you go out of your way to keep people happy.
However, going out of your way to keep people happy, while something that LOADS of people do, is not healthy for you. If you keep growing and maturing and you just be up front and nice and stand up and respect yourself and your needs,,, always try and see things from others' points of view,,, yet you must always stick up for yourself as long as it's not harming others... Then you should aim for that.
This is a yes and no. It's normal to not want to make people angry an to be afraid of someone who is. But it shouldn't be a chronic condition.