Is it normal to be afraid of sex?

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Okay, So I'm not going to lie.. I am probably to young for this website. But, I'm not going to say how young. I'm not to far away from being old enough. And I'm just wondering. Is it normal to be afraid of sleeping with someone. I'm a virgin now. And all my friends try to say that i need to have sex. And I'm like? No i really don't. They are always trying to ask me when am i going to lose my virginity. I say the same thing every single time?! When I'm married.. Call me old fashioned but, i think it should be like that.. Is this normal?

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  • Paradiddle
    11 years ago

    Its normal. I went with someone who also was waiting until marriage but was okay with certain alternatives. I would assume that some people wait so that they won't risk getting pregnant at the wrong time and others wait simply because it is what they believe in. If you don't want any sexual activity at all then by all means, follow that. Just as sniff said, lots of people have had sex early and now they are wishing they hadn't. Saying you lost your virginity is well and good but it isn't such a cool saying if your partner didn't come clean about ailments or created a child too early.

    As for me, I'm a guy and I've chosen not to do those things. Do I want to? Heck yeah! I'm not going to lie to my hormones. But when I see friends, relatives and old classmates who suddenly have to pick up Enfamil, I don't judge them at all but I don't want to join them just yet. Especially when their partner ended up being a psycho who put someone in jail or who has caused the family to be in danger. Them partner choices, I tell you.

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  • sniffnlicu
    11 years ago

    stick to your own beliefs and standards.i did and i respect myself for it.don't let others try sway you into anything, besides if they were honest i bet most of them wish they could have your problem.in other words i think they envy you.

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  • kingofcarrotflowers
    11 years ago

    Many people wait till marrage but I have never heard of someone doing it out of fear but you have made a choice and if you are 100 percent sure its what you want then your friends should respect that. The only thing i'm going to say however is that if you are scared of loosing your virginity now then good luck from all the build up leading to your wedding night.

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