Is it normal to be afraid of your ex?

I've always been afraid of me ex. We married in winter 2004 and I had my little girl in 2007. He hit me all the time and cheated on me going to random sites like 'naughty-sex chat' and meeting up with these bitches. I had enough so I wanted a divorce. He warned me bad stuff would happen to me if I divorced him. I neglected his warnings and had a divorce. I live with my baby Kayla right now in fear of his warnings. Was he bluffing or really telling the truth about stuff going to happen to me?

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Based on 47 votes (27 yes)
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  • dappled

    We obviously can't say for sure but people like this do make things up just to control you and prevent you from leaving. That doesn't mean you're perfectly safe, though. Don't let it ruin your life, but do keep your guard up. And if anything happens, involve the police immediately.

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  • pambambam

    Yeah take legal actions . Let a judge know all of the years from physical abuse.

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  • theabider

    What kind of threats did he make? You can always place a restraining order you know. There's nothing more essential than peace of mind...

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  • FairyDustYo

    IDK, if he was being honest, but its always good to be cautious just in case.

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  • Nimbledee

    How old r u

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  • squeallikeasacofpigs

    Sucks for you...

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    • Henna21

      Great help u are

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      • squeallikeasacofpigs

        Not trying to help

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