Is it normal to be an introvert but have no stage fright?

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SO, I'm really shy when it comes to dealing with people. I always feel like I say the wrong things and make myself look 'weird/awkward'. I feel like I can never really fit in with other people, and I would rather be by myself.
But on the other hand, I have no stage fright. I absolutely love being on stage and dream about being in the movies. Even just as an extra!
I really don't know how I could be both but I just am. Is this Normal?

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  • Gracious
    11 years ago

    Very normal for shy people to feel more comfortable playing a role. Following a script, or pretending to be someone else can be liberating, in a sense. I have known musicians and singers who are very free when they perform, but are socially awkward otherwise.

    If I was a very shy person, I'd probably try to figure out why I am so shy. Is it because of a fear of failure or rejection? It might be good to consider having self confidence built up by setting up small goals. Perhaps making a point of talking to one person today, and finding out something about them. Be a good listener and show interest in them. That takes the spotlight of of you.

    Just something to consider. Hope you do well.

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    • paradox90
      11 years ago

      I agree with Gracious. I have been always been pretty shy, but little by little I am improving my social skills, doing exactly what he suggests. Dont expect sudden changes, and don't ever feel bad at "failing" sometimes, it is impossible to never make mistakes, because nobody's perfect. It is part of the learning process.
      And If you really love stage, go for it, ask for recommendations, ask people who work in that atmosphere... it is a very nice place to begin fighting your shyness.

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  • telly34
    11 years ago

    I had a friend whose daughters were like this. They could act in plays because it was already predicted what they would say, but if they had to come up with it themselves, they would be nervous.

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  • davesumba
    11 years ago

    I am the quietest person most people know, and you could say the shyest, but it isn't because I'm afraid to say anything, it's that i don't know what to say. So i always surprise people when i give enthusiasm filled presentations and amazing acting performances. Because i have absolutely no fear of talking when i have all of the words written down and memorized.

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  • bigguy2010
    11 years ago

    You and I have a lot in common. I'm exactly the same way.

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