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I am 47 years old and all I am attracted to are females in their twenties. Any females in their thirties and above, are just old and unattractive to me.
When I was in my twenties guys like you made my life miserable, it's a horrible experience when some old fart who's old enough to be your dad sexually harasses you. I don't approve of your feelings or the feelings of old dudes like you, and I never will.
If you don't understand what I mean then just try to imagine some old hag hitting on you. Although typically lecherous old bastards aren't known for their empathy or sensitivity. You know when a girl that age gives a geezer the time of day it's only cause she's a gold digger, but not everyone is for sale. Like I said before I do not in anyway endorse your feelings, but least make a point not to harassing anyone. If you have to be assertive or persistent then you're probably harassing someone.
... but seriously, if looks and thoughts could kill a dead body would have popped up for every bastard who sexually harassed me in my life. Ugh, I hate the feeling of being harassed.
Girl you have a problem. This guy is asking a question. Just chill, we do not need to hear your tramatic life story that made you so bitter. Instead say "no" and be polite.
But when you are an old man you don't magically become attracted to old hags either. I understand the feeling isn't mutual but it is normal to still be as attracted to a young hottie since they are hotties in the first place (aesthetically pleasing).
On occasion you do hear of young girls who claim they love older men so if we don't at least check them out we'll never know what we'll miss. (I'm not advocating creepy persistent stares, once you realise it's not reciprocal you stop looking)
Honestly, I think the majority of very young women who are interested in geezers are either primarily interested in wallets or have serious daddy issues.
I guess I'm primarily interested in guys my own age. My current beau is actually only six months my junior. For the most part after I reached about thirty-one the guys who were most interested in me were younger, but I've never been interested in anyone more than ten years my junior. People can say age is just a number, but that May/December stuff will always be unnatural to me. I've never given guys in their forties the time of day until I was in my forties.
It's not normal but a lot of men get like this. It's the same area of the brain that makes children attractive to pedo's.look it up! So if you think that's normal because it happens to many men. then that's your prerogative. But don't be surprised when many women will turn their nose up at you. Unless you have a ton of cash. Relationships are mutual so what will she be getting out of all your wrinkles and being left widowed years before she's retired...? just putting it straight.also physically we are healthiest in our twenties so that's probably what it is but I imagine at your age you have accumulated a great deal of life experiences that she won't have so mentally /maturity wise, you just aren't going to be on a same par. So I can't see how that works relationship wise assuming your on about a partner and not just hook ups. It does for very few though but like finding a mutual soul mate isn't hard enough...Doctors can help if you want it. their are counselling courses designed for this
I don't get it. What 30-49 year old women are you looking at? I see so many attractive women in that age group.
I'm a woman, 24 and it's totally normal, I like to go for older men you could say I think they more mature then people my age. Maybe for guys it's the opposite for you, parties more fun and energetic all come with younger people.
Kirsty :)
Yes and no. IMO it's natural for men of all ages to find under-30s to be the most attractive women. However, I think most guys still find women their own age attractive. But to each their own. If you can get away with dating women under 30 then go for it.
It's normal. Though unlike you I still find a lot of women over thirty attractive.
It's normal but if it's causing problems in your life (are you lonely or having relationship problems?) then you might want to try to tweak your thinking. Maybe try getting more positive exposure to older women. Think about the good things about them.
I'm a 44 year old man.
I can appreciate the beauty of a youthful woman. However, I personally wouldn't date anyone under the age of... let's say 30.
It's the maturity that comes with life experience that attracts me.
I'm not criticizing anyone younger than that, it's that I don't see where a young woman in her early 20's and I could have enough in common to be compatible.
Of course it's normal. But stay away from my 25 year old niece or I will find you and totally fuck you up. Pervert!
When you get older the young ones look SO tempting. But we old farts can dream can't we? :)
OK holy cow you people that reply suck.
It is totally normal to be attracted to something beautiful. Usually we associate beauty with youth. I totally get it. However, beauty is only skin deep. I dated young women and they are immature. I felt like I was babysitting a kid even though she was 26. They are impulsive and irrational much like the replies to your post here. I think if you are expecting a lasting relationship you will not really find it here. It is rare. You could look on fet.life and see if you can find something. If you do she is probably weird.
Most guys with young ladies are fit. So make sure you are fit. If not, get a personal trainer.
Do not fall into the gold digger trap. They are just whores and should be treated accordingly.
Somebody once told me divide your age by two and add 7. So 30 years old is as young as realistically possible.
If that is not good enough and fetlife ducks then you will have to import. Good luck.
The question you have asked is, "Is it normal to be attracted to females 25 years younger than me?"
Mate, I'm in my 70th year, and I can assure you, I love the beauty of youth, and anyone who says they don't is a liar.
By the same token, I'm old, fat and ugly, so my chances of such a union are completely zero, just as they are for older women, but that doesn't mean older men and women can't window shop and dream, or at least, remember, lol.
Every guy wants to bang hot young chicks, of course it's normal. Personally, I prefer old, diaper wearing drool bags who have breasts that sag to their navel. I once was doing this old bag I met at the supermarket and her hip broke when I was doing her.
at wat point in life is it not normal tto wanna fck sexy 20 year old chicks?
Normal, yes. Just keep it in check. I have female friends of all ages, but, do tend to gravitate towards the younger, hot women. Most in their 20s, and they're not gold diggers. In fact, if I buy a round of drinks or maybe dinner, one either tries to pay or tells me she has the next time. She and I get along great as friends. Am I sexually attracted to her? Hell, yes...Would I make a move on her? Unless she did first (she's also very hands-on and flirty), probably not.
I will admit, though..One night, at Ruby Tuesday's, a hot, blonde woman came in, sat next to me at the bar, we had the same dinner, chatted for awhile, and I was interested. Even my manager friend there told me "pulling for you on this one". Things went well, we leave together, and I asked..How old are you? She said..24. Much younger than me. Part of my brain said "Way to go! A 24 year old wants you!". And, the smart part said.."Dude, she's almost half your age and you have a niece in college almost her age..Nope, can't do it".
Fun part for me also is..I can run circles around some of these immature 20-something guys trying to pick up the younger women I'm associating with. I do have female friends my own age, and, older, so, the younger aren't the only ones. Gotta be well-rounded.