Is it normal to be disgusted by my boyfriend

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I have been with my boyfriend for 3 years now (1.5 years long distance), we get along lile bestfriends and we have a lot of fun. But, there are some things that bother me, and it makes me question our relationship a lot.
- he sniffs everything, i am not talking sniffing pheromones, but like everything, my dirty laundry, my clothes, even when I'm inconfortable, he still does it.
- he masturbates next to me when i'm sleeping (when he thinks I'm sleeping), he has a fetich for public sex, the risk of getting caught excites him, but not me, it's the contrary, and I have told him this, not to do it when I'm sleeping/uncounscious, he promised he has never done it (he has) and he proceeds to do it the following night.

(Just to be clear, I have no pb with him masturbating, but it disgusts me and I refuse he does this next to me when i'm sleeping, evem more so when i have very clearly expressed my disgust and asked him to go to another room to do so and to stop sniffing everthing when I'm uncomfortable).

So my question is, what should I do?
We get along great, but I think I got the ick, no more spark or enjoyment when we get intimate. Is it this normal?

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  • Cuntsiclestick
    3 years ago

    Once that intimate spark is gone, it's time to cut your losses and move on. No point in sleeping with someone that grosses you out.

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  • darefu
    3 years ago

    Take a hint from your own statement.
    " I have no pb with him masterbating, but it disgusts me"
    Sounds like you're trying to justify staying with him, but I'd say time to move on and find someone that turns you on so much that you're masterbating while they're sleeping and you're thinking of them.

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  • Mini69
    3 years ago

    Just dump him and move on.

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  • RoseIsabella
    3 years ago

    He sounds really awful!

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  • Clunk42
    3 years ago

    Why do you sleep in the same bed as the dude, if he still ends up masturbating next to you, anyway? Isn't the whole idea of that that you're supposed to be having sex and not masturbating?

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  • 1WeirdGuy
    3 years ago

    Maybe if u help him out alittle he wont have to masturbate? Not being a smart ass just suggesting

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