Is it normal to be embarassed/scared about sex?

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I'm a 19y/o male college freshman. I have a friend named "Joe". I've had a crush on him since the begining of the semester. We were sitting around in lab together and he told me that he was bisexual. He grabbed his junk and said he had a big dong. He told me he wanted to get naked and su** and fu** me. When he blurted all this out to me, I was embarassed, excited and scared all at the same time. I froze up and couldn't say anything at first and then I changed the subject. Maybe he thought I was rejecting him? Is he just tooling with me because he knows I like him? If he is not joking, I dont want him trying to stick it in me because it could hurt. Am I normal to be embarrassed/scared about sex? I have never had sex with anyone. I should by now.

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  • peterrabbyt3
    7 years ago

    I think you guys should get it on and let him suck you off and fuck your sweet bum.

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  • coolio75650932
    11 years ago

    cool homo sweet (not being mean im complementing) well it is normal actualy to normal for me to explain but i was nervous about my first sex but it went fine so good luck you homosexual person (complement)

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  • seabird_71
    12 years ago

    I'm 19 and a virgin, too! That's normal. But I'm a girl.
    You being scared of sex, that's normal too. I think it's the idea of penetration that's the scary part. Because if I were a guy interested in other men, I'd be scared too because anal hurts. So does penetrating the lady bits so I think that's where most people's anxiety comes from, the potential pain of having sex for the first time. About your friend, if he keeps coming onto you like that, just see where it goes. If you're worried that he's just trying to out you or something, let him make the first move. But as far as I know, no straight male will talk like that with another guy.

    Hope every thing works out for you.

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