Is it normal to be grossed out by underaged sex

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Recently, I got into a nasty fight with a friend of mine. She got angry with me because I wasn’t excited enough for her about her losing her virginity. (She’s 16 btw) Despite my discomfort, I attempted to put that aside and give her my congrats. But she got angry because I wasn’t being super invested, asking a bunch of questions about her experiences and how she felt in general. But that’s besides the point. After this fight, I realized how uncomfortable I am with the thought of people below the age of consent having sexual relationships. My friends would mention some sexual act they did and I would always cringe. Now, I don’t mind having sex talks with people my age (I’m 18) or older. Then I am normal and don’t feel an ounce of disgust. I came here to ask if this is normal because according to, well, many people, these talks are as normal as asking how someone’s day is. I feel outcasted, as if my views are wrong. I will say though, at lest I know I’m not attracted to kids lmao. But seriously, is this normal? Also, is there a reason why I think this?

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  • Ihidabody
    1 year ago

    Normal.

    What's not normal is how your friend thinks made some big accomplishment by losing her virginity. Your friend sounds petty.

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    • baldboy
      1 year ago

      Yeah.. I agree. I mean if we want to get tecnical, virginity (at least in the context people use it) isn't real. It was just an idea created by men to dictate how woman act in bed for the rest of their life whilst pushing said man up on a pedestal. So, no, losing your virginity isn't a big deal as people think it is.

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      • Ihidabody
        1 year ago

        How is it not real?

        Yeah, regardless, it isn't really a big deal.

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        • baldboy
          1 year ago

          Now I'm not saying there's no such thing as people having sex for the first time. But I'm saying that the way people in general talk about virginity, the whole, "it changes your life forever!!!" that's not a thing. Sure, you know stuff now, but it doesn't change you as a human. Plus, it's grossly fetishized by some. Read my previous reply and you'll understand.

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          • Ihidabody
            1 year ago

            I get it now.

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  • Cuntsiclestick
    1 year ago

    Normal. It's honestly kinda weird that your friend wanted you to ask invasive questions about that shit in the first place. XD

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    • 1WeirdGuy
      1 year ago

      Its normal as a guy idk about a girl. As a guy when ur young you want everyone to know ur getting laid. Its seen as a right of passage or something to be finally getting laid. Its almost like the younger the better. So they can be like "ive been getting laid since I was only 12 years old"

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      • Tommythecaty
        1 year ago

        Many women talk about sex with their friends as much, if not more, than men do. Men are less descriptive people in general too. I know a lot of women, and the shit I’ve heard them talk about. Fuck, even about me while I’m in the room lol.

        She’s losing her virginity, i think it’d be far weirder if she didn’t want to talk about to her friend lol. It’s both natural and healthy, properly adjusted people are not that prudish.

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      • Tinybird
        1 year ago

        yes getting laid as a baby is so cool!

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        • 1WeirdGuy
          1 year ago

          Ya I know I been fuckin bitches since I was in the womb myself

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    • baldboy
      1 year ago

      I agree! Like, girl, I don't want to picture that!

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  • SkullsNRoses
    1 year ago

    I can see why you would feel a bit odd here as you are slightly older and possibly see her as a younger sister.

    It’s ok to find the thought of younger teenagers having sexual relations uncomfortable, although I understand that people have urges the thought of two fourteen year-olds having sex makes me cringe. You don’t sound like you are judging them, just not a fan of the mental image and that’s ok.

    As you mentioned, if you loved the thought of underage kids having sex that would be far more concerning,

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    • baldboy
      1 year ago

      Omg I didn't even think of this! Most likely why I was uncomfortable having that convo with her is because I DO see her as my younger sister. Hell, we've been friends for 6 years!

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      • SkullsNRoses
        1 year ago

        Glad to have helped.

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  • 1WeirdGuy
    1 year ago

    Just is your thing then. I dont think its more honorable or anything that thats your position but its not weird. Especially since ur basically the same age

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  • ChrissySnow
    1 year ago

    Abnormal. I'm sorry but when I was young, I was secretly obsessed with sex. I wanted to hear about my friends and couldn't wait to humble brag back at them. Guys that were "too old" for me were even more arousing to me partly because I felt like I didn't have to worry about them hurting my reputation, they were more aggressive and also because they had places to do stuff.

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  • farkelu
    1 year ago

    Contrary, it IS a big deal for anyone to lose their virginity. And at 16, it's the world. I had my first sex at 15 with my 14 year-old gf. What isn't normal is your lack of compassion and empathy. With friends like you, who needs enemies?

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    • Tinybird
      1 year ago

      gross.

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    • baldboy
      1 year ago

      You have it all wrong. I tried my best to be supportive of her. I would never shame my friend for that. Me not asking a bunch of grapic questions about her experiance doesn't make me crule. I'm ALLOWED to be uncomfortable.

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  • Mountainman0nfire
    1 year ago

    Seems like a lot of hate on here!!

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  • randomperson1000000
    1 year ago

    Would you have the same reaction if it was an underaged boy, instead?

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    • baldboy
      1 year ago

      Yes. It doesn't matter gender to me. If you're underaged, I don't want to hear about it.

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      • randomperson1000000
        1 year ago

        Good, because most people are sexist against males. And I will NEVER tolerate that.

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  • dirtybirdy
    1 year ago

    Depends on how old the other person was.

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  • Tinybird
    1 year ago

    I find 2 underaged people having sex worse than an adult and a kid because then 2 people are getting r@pped.

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    • baldboy
      1 year ago

      I think minor/adult relations are far creepier than two minors. BUT I will say you make a point on the r@pe part. It's called statutory rape, and it's agenst the law.

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  • Tinybird
    1 year ago

    Yes all people who have underaged sex with other minors are pedos even if they are also kids. I despise them all

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