Is it normal to be hated as a good looking, in shape guy?

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I think I am a fairly outgoing guy, I keep care of myself in my hairstyle, body, and clothes and always have. I'm also one of the very few in my area that went to university, and I'm passing a hard program right now. I'm just laying out information to help with my question. I have a topknot hairstyle which looks really good (I've been told). Problem is it seems like my friends get jealous. I have been told by "friends" that they give me a hard time because I look like Adonis. It's nice to know why they do it but it still annoys me. My body shape is very well set out, not too big, but you can tell I work out and it looks good. It's hard for me to tell what I look like but I think I'm a pretty good looking guy (girls also say it). The problem is that it seems like I get slightly left out of stuff or even when I'm there my friends try not to talk to me much. I'm really good with one-liners and other jokes that are clever and make people laugh and I'm an all around easy going, easy to get along with guy, but I feel like people's jealousy gets in the way of my friendships. It sucks because being a good looking guy barely helps with girls. It does some but not like being a good looking girl would, so if a girl sees that my friends are shitty to me and that I'm left out a bit they won't go for me thinking that I'm uncool. Some girls can see what's going on but some don't. I also have some friends that like that I workout and such and don't judge me for it, but I'm not always around those friends.

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  • riffraffy
    7 years ago

    Good on you for being so self-aware, if you're not a troll. Being called a d-bag by a guy essentially means "there's something about you that makes me insecure about myself, and that upsets me, so I don't like you." It's the most sincere form of flattery a weak-minded guy will give you.

    As for friendships and girls, take a genuine interest in them and make them feel important. That will get you further than even a v-taper and 8% bodyfat will.

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  • RoseIsabella
    7 years ago

    Sounds like your friends are not only jealous of you, but insecure about themselves. Maybe you could expand your horizons and try to meet more people like yourself? As far as women are concerned I can only speak for myself, but honestly I tend to prefer someone who's more of an individual than a frat boy type with a whole entourage of douchebag friends. I think you would serve yourself well to seek out some new companions.
    ;-)

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  • NeilYounger
    7 years ago

    Homo.

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