Is it normal to be nervous about first time sex with girlfriend?

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So theres this party firday and im pretty sure me and my girlfriend will try it there. Heres the thing though, im a virgin and shes not. Is It Normal to be like nervous and kinda scared? Because she has experience and what if i cant please her? And the big thing is im sure shes already been with someone bigger then me so what if shes use to her ex's? Idk what'll she think about me.

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  • Dad
    12 years ago

    Have you told her you're a virgin?
    This will help you if she's so more experienced than you, she'll be 'gentle'

    By the way, the first time is NEVER what its made out to be. Why? Because you do get better with experience.

    Your question here really should have been how do I please her and get her to please me the best for my first time, although I'm not too sure how explicit we are allowed to be here?

    Just be aware, that a guy can be aroused in about 3seconds!! But a girl takes about 10mins of good foreplay first.

    Oh and it would be nice to be a little romantic for your first time, remember you'll be telling many people about this time for many years (when you get older)

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    • flutterhigh
      12 years ago

      This is really weird coming from my dad.

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  • lease
    12 years ago

    Don't do it AT a party...that's so...frat-house-ish. Go outside and do it on the back of a car - that's way more fun and it will be a way better memory. Sounds trashy, but less trashy than doing it in the corner of a house - UNLESS of course, other cute chicks wanna watch a join in, in which case you should wake up. (though I have actually seen that once)

    Two hours before you go to the party, JACK OFF. It'll make you last a LOT longer. Don't tell the girl you're a virgin, unless she's the "teaching" type.

    Remember, the point of sex is to enjoy yourself. But the only way to have sex continually is to make sure she enjoys HERSELF.

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    • Anonymous Post Author
      12 years ago

      I wont lie, the partys honestly gonna be just a few friends at a motel. And theres gonna be a room with a bed lol. And sadly she knows im a virgin lol. I think that im just thinking about my penis too much like idk im thinking stupid shit like shes not gonna like it lol. That jacking off idea sounds kinda smart though i wont lie hahaha

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  • riptide31
    12 years ago

    Lower your expectations and wear a condom and it'll be fine.

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  • Ono
    12 years ago

    I'd maybe tell her it's your first time if she doesn't already know, saves you doing something terribly embarrassing like trying to insert into the urethra or something. It feels a bit weird the first time you insert into a vagina, there's nothing quite like it. If it doesn't go as you thought it would don't worry, just remember it's your first time not your last.
    Goodluck. Oh and wear a condom, and make sure you know how to out it on.

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  • pogos
    12 years ago

    ^ hahahaha.

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  • blink281
    12 years ago

    No duh youre gonna be nervous

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  • 06091996
    12 years ago

    You'll Be Fine, lol

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