Is it normal to be obsessed with a guy?

Ok, well I'm a sophomore in high school and I am also a photographer. On my first football game that i photographed I saw a very hot football player. Ever since I saw him, I became obsessed with him. I go to his lunch and write down everything he does, I try to talk to everyone he talks to, I usually follow him to a few of his classes, I take pictures of him
ALL the time, I have a blog focused on just him, and the worst thing i've ever done is sat in front of his house in my car for 30 minutes staring at his window. Is this normal?

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28% Normal
Based on 133 votes (37 yes)
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Comments ( 16 )
  • That's...Creepy?

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  • DeadPixel

    You don't know anything about this guy's personality or anything, you just happen to find him somewhat physically attractive? Crazy bitch. I hope he finds you out and takes out a restraining order on you.

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  • RoyalKnight

    Having obsession over someone you find attractive is normal but not to that degree. That is very excessive and it's preventing you from living a normal life.

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  • Energy

    It's normal, but you're taking it way too far... Just try and make contact with him. Try and talk to him. Stalking doesn't get you anywhere, except for knowing more about him. It sounds like you should really make a move.

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  • sokrazy

    Haha! You sound like me. I'm obsessed with a guy to the point of stalking him just like you are. It's nice to know I'm not alone with this problem.

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  • badboy82

    Oh new material.................I cant wait to watch this episode when it comes out on criminal minds! I wonder whos gonna play the stalker Girl and who'll play the football player?

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  • Wierdmyself

    CREEEEEPPPPYYYYY!!!!! I thought I was obsessed over my crushes and a girl who blew me off, in wanting to see them, but DAMN!!.

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  • Avant-Garde

    At first it seemed a tad harmless, but now I think you're taking it too far.

    You're stalking him! Maybe, you should just tell him you love him?

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  • BlueAlice

    ALALA TROLOLOL.

    Alguém me avisa/Quando é bom parar/De fazer a íntima

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  • alv1592

    This seems to be common on this site. Again, obsessions are never healthy. Try talking to him if he's single, but don't tell him you stalk him. That would probably scare him.

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  • rin

    Why don't you just go talk to him instead? Nothing good will come from this. Being overly obsessed with anything is bad.

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  • kellstar79

    Stalking is bad! If he finds out what your doing it isn't going to make him like you! I've had that happen to me and I hated the person for making me feel unsafe and intruded upon. It's normal to like someone you find attractive but you have crossed the line! It's not attractive. Why not just go up him Jim and start a conversation? Before he finds our what your doing and really dislikes you and finds you creepy

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  • Saycheese

    Just talk to him. He doesn't want a girl he doesn't know creeping on him.

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  • bigguy2010

    I bet you are taking that new course required by the new Common Core State Standards. Stalking 101.

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  • lufa

    a girl stalking a guy isn't as bad as the other way around, because male stalkers can be pretty dangerous but still it is really creepy.

    you have some fantasy made up of him in your head. I bet if you got to know him and realized he was a typical dumb jock type, you'd never want to speak to him again.

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    • besessen82

      Actually I started talking to him and he is not a dumb jock. He's different.

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