Is it normal to be overly worried about internet trolls?

Well before I just recently stumbled across this website, I frequently used another app that has a similar vibe. You could ask questions, debate answers; it was great. Until I was targeted by a user who told me to "go kill yourself," and even got other members to join in. He targeted me because my responses were "robotic," though I think what he meant was that my responses had correct spelling and showed genuine effort in using correct grammar (I like to think so). The conflict was eventually solved and the user did apologize to me. Goes to show killing em' with kindness does work sometimes! Yet still after it was all said and done and the apology was given, I felt absolutely horrible inside and still do. I can't get the words out of my head. Not because I am suicidal or suffer from depression, but because it was the meanest and most hateful thing I've ever been told. I couldn't believe it and still can't believe the user said this...even after the apology. Anyways, is it normal that these ridiculous words are still running through my mind? Why am I finding it so hard to brush myself off and try again? It's actually holding me back from participating in online discussions, which is something I love to do.

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Comments ( 9 )
  • DemonixonGirl

    trolls on the internet are stupid,and don't let them get to you what are they gonna do anyways. =D

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  • charli.m

    Christ...that's just a day in the life on IIN...

    Does it make it right? No. But there's no point letting them get to you. Let them wallow in their own misery. Don't let them win.

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  • Arm0se

    This is IIN, kid. Your safe here. Welcome home.

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  • gloryholeflasher

    No matter where you go in life there will be people who don't like you and want to bring you down. You have to rise above them, just know that you are better than they give you credit for. You have to be your own biggest fan!

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  • harukim

    No, trolls are paper tigers. put them out of your mind.

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  • Aries

    Ignore it and you will be fine . I wouldn't waste time fueling a trolls flame .

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  • I've been told a bunch of times to kill myself. Not a big deal.

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  • DolphinAngel

    Umm, that is not considered trolling, that is just pathetic...

    Definition of "Trolling" taken from "Urban Dictionary"

    "The art of deliberately, cleverly, and secretly pissing people off, usually via the internet, using dialogue. Trolling does not mean just making rude remarks: Shouting swear words at someone doesn't count as trolling; it's just flaming, and isn't funny. Spam isn't trolling either; it pisses people off, but it's lame.

    The most essential part of trolling is convincing your victim that either a) truly believe in what you are saying, no matter how outrageous, or b) give your victim malicious instructions, under the guise of help.
    Trolling requires decieving; any trolling that doesn't involve decieving someone isn't trolling at all; it's just stupid. As such, your victim must not know that you are trolling; if he does, you are an unsuccesful troll."

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  • Cliche1234

    What done is done, right? Besides, it's a happy ending that they apologized to you. That's a big bonus for you when dealing with them. I was in your situation many times already. At first, the trolls bugged me but then I learnt that their words didn't have any values at all. I will ignore them as best as I can. So, it's a waste of time to keep thinking about those people. You have to accept that trolling is a part of the cruel world of the internet.

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