Is it normal to be plain blank ??!

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Obviously I get tongue tied when we chat online .. My mind is simply BLANK! whenever he says ok "Your turn to ask" In my head I hope not to say something stupid as I did before. Sometimes I'm afraid that he would find me boring.. Cause i don't talk much. I almost know everything about him as well as he does about me. Sometimes I just can't find any topic to talk about.

We were friends way before I noticed that he likes me and we do have so much in common.. I see him from time to time and I don't get tongue tied when we're talking face to face. It's usually me who opens any conversation.

I know we need to spend more time in person. But, we can't meet regularly cause we have projects so it's usually on the phone or online.

Is it normal to be blank that way?? I thought of doing a new activity just to experience something to tell about.. yes I reached my limits.. I don't want him to get bored of me..

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  • [Old Memory]
    13 years ago

    Drawing a blank is normal either you're just low on current news you have nothing in common or you've talked way too much recently ^_^

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  • Anonymous Post Author
    14 years ago

    @ zackman5000

    yeah we've been to concerts before. It was fun, but I was looking for something more.. Think we should do some new activity as u said.

    @ Hotdogvendor

    It's strange cause this time chatting does stress me out with this guy. It should always be easier. Thanks for your words.. were v comforting.

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  • Hotdogvendor
    14 years ago

    It's always hard to keep a conversation going online. All the visual queues and changes of voice which you naturally pick up on are missing, so you don't know if the other person is interested in what you're saying or not, or wether they're as worried about the conversation as you are. Don't worry about it, a lot of people who are fine speaking to each other have trouble sustaining any meaningful conversation online.

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  • zackman5000
    14 years ago

    It sounds like he is shy or you both go blank in online chats. Well just find activities something fun and exciting when you do hang out and if you have great time he is most likely feeling the same way. That way its more about body language that both of you will sense off each other(So there is no need for award blank conversation). Try going to do more outgoing stuff like dacing,concerts,and stuff that involves less talking and more communication though other means of talking. Of course you going to talk but its going to be short and simple from what your saying so just try to be more outgoing one of you is going to have to step up to the plate and if he is not interested there are plenty more people in this world. Keep your head held high, being outgoing goes a long ways.

    Im a shy person myself but I learned first hand if you are the one that keeps things going with conversations and stuff like that they will respond back to all that your saying if there interested in you.

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  • xino00
    14 years ago

    thats good to be tonque tied online rather than real life.

    And find anything to talk about, it's not hard.

    Obama, war, IraQ, bombs, comics, movies, music, celebs, games, pc, tec, gadgets, phones, your mom, family, your problems, what you dream to be, funny feeling, weirdness.

    seriously:/ Chatting online can be easy cuz you can come up with anythng, rather than real life. Cuz they'll just be like "oooo...kkkk" when you bring uncertain subjects.

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    • Anonymous Post Author
      14 years ago

      Thanks ..that was helpful :)

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